Wings Of Love Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 So no contact is going well. I miss him a little, but I don't feel that pang of pain when I think about him very often now. I've been reconnecting with old friends, making the most of my life and I've had a lot of male attention recently too, so that's a real boost to my confidence. On Saturday I have to spend a few hours with my ex boyfriend's sister-in-law, the one who encouraged him to ask me out in the first place. I feel sure she will ask me how I'm doing (she's likely to report back to him as well) and I'd like some advice on how to act. Do I tell her I don't want to talk about it? Should I pretend I'm completely over him? Or should I be honest and tell her that I still have feelings for him but I've cut him out of my life because I want to move on? I would avoid seeing her at all if I could, but as it is my sister's hen party I really can't miss it. So advice would be much appreciated.
im_thedude Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 One quick sentence on how you're doing good and then change the subject - that's what I would do if one of my ex's friends/family asked how I was good. Frankly my ex doesn't deserve any chance to know how I'm doing.
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