Lz0512 Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 Me and my girl have been dating for 15 months, we're both incredibly in love with each other and mean the world to one another. We live sort of of far from each other so we only see each other on the weekends but during the week we would talk on the phone for as long as we possibly could. Last week she said she wanted a break but still wanted to talk because she doesn't want me out of her life ever. So we don't talk on the phone as much but still text constantly and still tell each other we love each other. She then said she still wants to see me as much as possible but she says it doesn't feel the same when I'm in her arms. She then told me she wants to maybe start over as best friends and let our relationship grow into what we had before she got all these feelings. Also yesterday we ended up talking on the phone for like an hour and I was making her laugh like crazy and she always tell me she loves me very much before she hangs up and goes to bed, but I'm just so confused as to what I should do because the only reason I'm still being friends with he is because I want to spend forever with this girl and I love her and I hope we can work out a relationship again and so does she. Help please?
ForeverHopeful1 Posted October 10, 2013 Posted October 10, 2013 Me and my girl have been dating for 15 months, we're both incredibly in love with each other and mean the world to one another. We live sort of of far from each other so we only see each other on the weekends but during the week we would talk on the phone for as long as we possibly could. Last week she said she wanted a break but still wanted to talk because she doesn't want me out of her life ever. So we don't talk on the phone as much but still text constantly and still tell each other we love each other. She then said she still wants to see me as much as possible but she says it doesn't feel the same when I'm in her arms. She then told me she wants to maybe start over as best friends and let our relationship grow into what we had before she got all these feelings. Also yesterday we ended up talking on the phone for like an hour and I was making her laugh like crazy and she always tell me she loves me very much before she hangs up and goes to bed, but I'm just so confused as to what I should do because the only reason I'm still being friends with he is because I want to spend forever with this girl and I love her and I hope we can work out a relationship again and so does she. Help please? Im so sorry you're in pain. It is very hard when you have stronger feelings for someone, than they have for you. To be honest with you, she isnt coming back. Whether she knows it or not, this downgrade from boyfriend to friend, in hopes of falling for you again, isnt going to work. People usually say things like this because they care for you, but dont actually want to be with you. You dont end things with someone you truly love and are happy with. The whole "we can be friends" is like telling you your dog died, but you can still play with it. How old are you two?
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