jj_999 Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 Hi, Could anyone here please help me. Here's what happened... We've been dating pretty casual for about 8 months but only see each other once every couple weeks because of work and distance. She was really into it at first but seemed to lose a lot of interest. I probably wasn't satisfying her or giving her the commitment she wanted. She broke up with me. She admitted she started seeing someone else. It really sounded like she didn't like this guy too much. I've been pretty crushed and been moping around. At first, I ended the breakup call quickly because I was taken by surprise. She is definitely someone that I could see being with for the long term. I spoke to a counselor who told me to call her and say sorry that I wasn't trying hard enough and making enough time for her and I really liked her and that I want to try again. And to tell her that I was upset she didn't tell me about the other guy (could have been worse she could have been dating 20 guys at once or something)...I called her and told her that and told her that. I also told her I'm not surprised she's dating someone new because she's been looking really good lately. I asked if she wanted to get together and she said yes... but I asked if she really likes this other guy and she said yes. I told her I have to move on at some point. So I don't know I was thinking give it some time and get together with her to see if she's into it... What would you do ? Please help... I care about this one alot
thompkevin Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 Hey, the best way would be to wait for sometime, feel better about yourself and then contact her and meet her. It's not a big deal if she likes that other guy. People are attracted to opposite sex, but it doesn't necessarily mean she will choose him over you. Just make sure that you are feeling confident and happy before you meet her.
Author jj_999 Posted October 9, 2013 Author Posted October 9, 2013 thanks. does anyone else have any input
Stealth3 Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 In the end, she might not choose him over you, but would you take her back after she has sex with this guy? In the end, it really is your choice. You have the choice to say no. Will you take her back knowing she dumped you to have the opportunity to date and **** someone else?
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