snappycg1996 Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 This is long, but I could appreciate any help at all someone could please offer. This is realy, really messed up. We dated 4 and a half months, and she became cold and distant. She wouldn't text all day and it was always a "ya" or something stupid. Well, she asked me a few times if we should just break up but we agreed it wasn't right. She promised to watch the fireworks with me on the 4th of July, because I've always wanted someone to be with on that day and I had her this time. The day came, she made excuses after excuses to not go. She hadn't seen me for over a month prior and she kept saying it'll be okay, to pretend she lived in another country, even though she lives less than 2 miles away. So the day came, and we got into a huge stupid fight. She dumped me saying that she was through "pretending" to like me. She posted on her FB she was finally single!!! Time to find her a real man. Prior she was talking to guys who asked for nude pics of her, which I told her not to talk to them. She had a huge problem with this, which caused a huge fight. We broke up, it was bad, a few days later, she burned everyhing of us, and I called her a week after the breakup to try to reconcile, she picked up, and hung directly up as soon as I said hey. Fast foward to school starting, a month later. She was alone the first week of school, she looked sad and depressed. She was sitting with no one, and her once best friend, barely talked to her anymore. Her friend turned on me by the way. :/ Eventually, a girl came and talked to her and they become frends. Now she is friends with people she told me she'd NEVER talk to ever and she called them "things". She and them are best friends now. Now she looks at me sometimes, and I catch her, but she hates me. She tells everyone she hates me, and when I am the center of attention in choir, leading the class, she looks out of the window. Her new friend came to me in choir, 3 weeks ago, and said she wanted to tell me something and then to "get out of her life". This is about 3 months after our breakup, and she has a new boyfriend, who is 15. I didn't go to her, because I was done with her and her "get out of her life" attitude didn't fly. I ignored her. Me and this other girl start to come into the picture, she sees us hugging and being together 24/7, even though we aren't dating. She has a new boyfriend mind you, I think, unless they broke up. They may have because she blocked me on Instagram recently after getting back on, and changed her username to something that had to do with her new bf, and now it's changed to something else. It used to be have to do with my name. The new girl and her used to be friends, who said hi to each other and smiled at each other. Apparently, she catches her all the time scowling at her when she touches me, and now, when she says "Hi", she just gives her a look and walks on. It's clear that she hates her now, but Idk wtf for?? :/ And here is the intersting part! She brought ultrasounds to school and said she was pregnant. With her new bf. Someone told me this, she only showed 2 people and they told me. When asked why we broke up, she said it was because I lied about her to one person, and she told two others it was becaus I called her an atheist, which I did becuase I wasn't thinking and I was upset (when we broke up), religion is a HUGE thing for her. Anyway, it was apparently her bf's, until recently. The new girl's friend, which may be or may not be lying, said she hates me and the new girl because we are and I quote "Dating and having sex". She told her friend that it was MY baby, and I got her pregnant, and that we had "sex twice on the back of her fourwheeler" which we never, ever did. She wanted to stay a virgin until marriage, and I agreed, we both did. Now she tells her we had sex twice and I got her pregnant which is a lie. She told a friend of hers that she lied about being pregnant and me being the father. Her friend then said it was to make me mad but Idk if she thought that or if that's what my ex said. She told this girl she hates my guts because of the atheist thing, and she pretended to be pregnant with her new boyfriend, and then all of a sudden it was mine, and she told people it was his and then mine?? And then she said it was all a lie. She scowls and now hates the new girl after seeing us together recently. A few weeks back it was fine, but since being with her she hates her. Even though she still is friendly with her friends. She avoids me, like she'll walk around the other way on purpose. If she has a new boyfriend, hates my guts, WHY does she hate this new girl and me, and why did she turn cold on her because she thinks we are dating? :/ She sees her all the time looking at her touching me and stuff and she said she just looks away quickly. She pretended to be pregnant, and with her new boyfriend, and now it's mine, and now a lie. Now she's spreading rumors around school that aren't true about me, and this other girl, really really bad rumors. She dumped ME, and was GLAD. She has a new boyfriend, why does she insist, almost 4 months later, to make my life so miserable, starting rumors about me alone, and this new girl, and hate the new girl suddenly. I think her and her new bf may have broke up but I'm not sure. Everyone thinks she's crazy. :/ She said she was pregnant with him, then it was me, and now it was fake to begin with. I'm on my last thread here... I'm over everything and I thought she was too, but this is really getting to me. D; She's 17, almost 18, and I'm 16, almost 17 What do I do?? Please help. DX
Polak Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 She's not worth it, buddy. Just don't worry about her or her friends, especially if they are acting hateful towards you. Move on and ignore them as much as possible and they will eventually get tired of it. You don't need to feel anything but relief that you aren't with her anymore... She's obviously trying to thrive off making you feel bad. So don't let her. Get far away and start enjoying your life.
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