Jilly10340 Posted December 3, 2004 Posted December 3, 2004 I was talking to my friend yesterday and we were trying to decide if there were certain things that guys did where you would know they were cheating on you.... So, what are some of the signs that your boyfriend or girlfriend is cheating on you?
tattoomytoe Posted December 3, 2004 Posted December 3, 2004 secret phone calls. hanging out with other peole than his "normal" circle.
alphamale Posted December 3, 2004 Posted December 3, 2004 a sudden drop or increase in frequency of intimacy/sex for no reason.
savethedrama4allama Posted December 3, 2004 Posted December 3, 2004 Altered grooming habits or increased attention to appearance out of the blue. Taking a shower when coming home. Significant changes in intimacy (can be loss or gain). Hanging up suddenly on the phone, concealing phones or computer screens when you walk into a room.
LucreziaBorgia Posted December 3, 2004 Posted December 3, 2004 Increased or sudden irritability and intolerance for you. Picking fights and being accusatory and overly defensive. (Trying to find justification for his actions - if he can turn you into the 'bad guy', then he will not feel so bad about cheating).
alphamale Posted December 3, 2004 Posted December 3, 2004 ahhh...lipstick on the collar/face/genital area would be a dead giveaway
Miche789504 Posted December 3, 2004 Posted December 3, 2004 I was in a four year relationship with my daughter's father and he cheated on me towards the end....here are the signs that made me realize what was going on: He would get an attitude for no reason and start fights just so he could "go out with the guys" He would take off all the time and stay out until all hours of the night/sometimes not come home at all! His cell phone suddenly became a "private thing" the ringer was now on silent all the time He suddenly started dressing nicer and spending more time in front of the mirror....the list goes on, but what I finally figured out is that if you have that gut feeling then 9 times out of 10 it's probably happening.
LucreziaBorgia Posted December 3, 2004 Posted December 3, 2004 Suddenly making physical improvements like working out, changing hairstyle, shaving, buying new clothes - this one is tricky though, as it could be a sign he's doing it to impress another woman, or a sign that he's doing it for himself.
tattoomytoe Posted December 3, 2004 Posted December 3, 2004 acting all super duper suspicious of your activities....usually their own cheating will make them think suspect on you.
Naive Posted December 3, 2004 Posted December 3, 2004 * They suddenly listen to a different type of music * High cell phone bill (his cell phone bill will always be a good sign) * Numbers on the phone bill that are called a lot and you don't recognize it * Highly irritable * They have less money than usual * They dress different * Charges on credit card that you don't know about
MaiGrl Posted December 5, 2004 Posted December 5, 2004 - Charges on the credit card bill. I found one bill including dinners and flowers... For me, he said it was from going out with friends, (wow my friends never pay to take me out to all those nice restaurants!) and the roses were for 'some girl' that he is friends with for her birthday. When I asked who, he got mad - If the don't live with you and they don't call all night. ...For me again, he always told me he fell asleep, but later I found out he was out with her all those nights he failed to call - Pictures of you or of both of you are moved, again if you don't live together. Or in the car....My picture in his car suddenly always ended up in his visor. His excuse was the wind was blowing it. Strange the wind never affected it the past 3 years - The phone suddenly always being on vibrate is a great one. ...Especially if they have a Nextel with the two way and they turn the speaker off when you’re around, but never did before
lucyiam Posted December 5, 2004 Posted December 5, 2004 Not being able to call him at home (only cell phone-because he hasn't told his kids) or can't see you because he's going to tahoe to stay with a buddy (several weekends in a row).
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