Vel Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 So my ex who dumped me about 3 weeks ago after 2 years just contacted me on Skype to ask "how things are going?" because I said I was hitting up the gym and getting my life sorted (which I am and it's going great for me) I was in NC with her for 2 weeks until she asked me yesterday on Skype, I added her back and told her it was all good and such, But now I regret it, I do want her back but she's in a rebound(?) relationship atm and we're long distance I'm always online skype and facebook, but I just added her back... Should I delete her again? What do you guys reckon?
reddragon588 Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 Delete her and move on. You aren't in NC if you can see their Facebook or social media. Likewise, she still has a connection to you. She needs to know she's lost you.
Author Vel Posted October 9, 2013 Author Posted October 9, 2013 Delete her and move on. You aren't in NC if you can see their Facebook or social media. Likewise, she still has a connection to you. She needs to know she's lost you. By doing this, would it help get her back aswell?
organizedchaos Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 Delete her and move on. You aren't in NC if you can see their Facebook or social media. Likewise, she still has a connection to you. She needs to know she's lost you. On a similar note. I've deleted or blocked mine everywhere online. However, on twitter, while we're not connected, she could visit my profile to see what's up with me. Should I make my profile private so she can't have any insight in to what's going on with me? Or leave it public so she can see I'm living my life without her just fine?
reddragon588 Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 By doing this, would it help get her back aswell? It doesn't matter. But, to answer your question, NC is the only way for reconciliation to happen. That said, NC is not to be used to get someone back. It is to be used to heal and move on.
polger Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 Tell her you need space to move on and delete her. Move on with your life, if she wants you back and you have moved you will be better equipped to handle the situation. Who knows you could meet a girl who is your true soulmate in that time, or learn that for now you are happier by yourself. The end of the this relationship should be the start of something better. You should let her know she doesn't have access to you while you moving on. If she really needs to contact you she will find a way.
reddragon588 Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 Tell her you need space to move on and delete her. Move on with your life, if she wants you back and you have moved you will be better equipped to handle the situation. Who knows you could meet a girl who is your true soulmate in that time, or learn that for now you are happier by yourself. The end of the this relationship should be the start of something better. You should let her know she doesn't have access to you while you moving on. If she really needs to contact you she will find a way. You don't even need to tell her, unless she absolutely won't leave you alone.
robbysurfs Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 dude....out of sight out of mind or better yet mind of matter put her out of your mind she wont matter delete her move on. I did the same thing and it backed fired on me when I saw her with the new man at a party with her F' em dress on. I was asking for trouble, I thought I could be a mature adult and carry on as friends. Truth of the matter was I was not ready and honestly I dont know who dumped who but its not really nice to remain in contact.You or she needs to give the person a chance to heal.Staying nc is the nicest thing one can do for another in that situation. Live and let live so to speak...
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