MLM0727 Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 To make a long story short, I dated my ex boyfriend for almost 5 yrs. we started dating in college and after we graduated we were long distant. I decided to stay at home so I could pay off my school loans and try to get some good job experience before moving closer to my bf. it got harder on him being long distant. We took a break in may to work on ourselves, not to date around and at the beginning of june he broke up with me because he was seeing another girl. Even though he started a relationship with this new girl he was txt and calling me a lot. I went to see him one Saturday at the end of this past Aug bc I was going to tell him he needs to choose me or her. When I went there he wanted me to have sex with him. I didn't because I actually have respect for myself and his gf but I did do something with him that I would refer to as cheating. It was a weak moment because I missed being with him and realize it was a big mistake. We ended up hanging out and I ended up staying over his apt sat night. The next day my sister went behind my back and ended up telling his gf I went to his place to see him, even though I told my sister never to msg his gf. She did it bc she saw how much he hurt me and she didn't want his new gf to go through the same thing with him. My ex told his gf that it was a lie that I was never at his place and that my sister was lying. I didn't feel like it was my place to tell her I was there, but through the course of this breakup, I learned my ex is a liar and it is second nature for him to lie. On the one hand, I feel like I should not get involved with their relationship, but on the other hand I feel like she should know the guy she is with is not who he says he is and is lying to her face about major issues. Do you have any advice?
Stealth3 Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 So he dumped your ass, treated you like a pile of **** and found another girl and what do you do? You go to his place, give him a bj and help him lie to his gf? You should tell his gf and forget about this guy. He seems like a total scumbag. And if you help him and encourage him to be that way, you deserve everything he did to you and more. Your sister did the right thing. 1
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