PAguy34 Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 I have been together with a woman for over 2 years now we are halfway across the country from eachother. the first year we saw eachother like 4 times, financial difficulties haven't allowed us to do so for a year now, she says she's committed to moving to my town and yet it always seems to be a delay or reason on why things don't take a step forward from her. She's gorgeous and I do believe we are deeply in love with eachother . This relationship started a year after I split with my now ex wife, so I have been alone for 3 years raising my 8 year old little boy. Each day that goes by it feels like something else could be slipping by, but in the same regard I want nothing more than to have my current girlfriend be with me. I don't really need anything just love of a supporting woman, I have a house, truck , love to work at the best job in town I'm just missing one thing ..... Very torn on what to do, any input?
TMichaels Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 I don't really need anything just love of a supporting woman, I have a house, truck , love to work at the best job in town I'm just missing one thing ..... So what's in it for her? Best, TMichaels
Author PAguy34 Posted October 9, 2013 Author Posted October 9, 2013 Point taken Tmicheal , what I meant to say is all I want is her I don't need anything else, my big question is at what point do you say I can't wait any longer and move on with things
TMichaels Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 Point taken Tmicheal , what I meant to say is all I want is her I don't need anything else, my big question is at what point do you say I can't wait any longer and move on with things No you're still missing my point. You've told us what's in it for you. What about her? It's not a minor decision to uproot one's life -- especially for someone else whom with you've only spent time with a grand total of four times in two years. Someone who also is raising a young child. So once again, from her perspective what's in it for her? My guess is she's already weighed the plusses and minuses. If the plusses in your column outweighed the negatives, she'd be there with you already. She's not. 'Nuff said? Best, TMichaels
Carenth Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 On the flip side what if she had asked you to move to her? Giving up everything you have is not a small decision. I will be moving next month to be with my girlfriend. I've weighed up the pros and cons and for me personally the pros column is greater. It was still not an easy decision but yeah unless there is very good reason for her to move then it probably won't happen. Not many people are willing to uproot their lives just for love. Also I might add financial difficulties will just compound that decision. That was one of the main factors in me deciding to go. I don't have a huge amount holding me where I am besides family. I have the means to support myself and my move.
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