betweenarock Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 I've been talking to this girl online for about 2 months, shes a good friend of my cousin. We don't talk everyday, but we talk at least 2-4 times a week, as I don't want to bug her if she is busy, or push anything too far. To start: she asked me for my number, but wasn't the one to text first, she laughs at pretty much a lot of the things I say, and acts in a flirty way by bugging me (elementary school way). We started to text and she seemed playful texting. E.g) I told her the only reason she likes me (like can mean anything) is because I am good at soccer, and she told me that to prove you wrong I met you before I knew you were good at soccer. I responded, "so theres other reasons that you like me?, I must be somewhat awesome :P" She said, "don't flatter yourself ya bum, you're alright ." I don't exactly know how to take this, I feel like it is subtle flirting, but every time we talk she will never straight up say anything that will lead me to know she likes me. On the other hand, she knows I like her, because she told my cousin. And she isn't weirded out about it or anything. In fact, my cousin jokingly said that I liked her, and she texted me right after that....being playful , but never saying anything explicit. When I was just playing around with her another time, she calls me "ya big flirt" and even told me to keep dreaming, now I'm not sure if this was just playing too but it felt different...although she kept talking to me. I am not sure what to think about this, please help.
coolheadal Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 How old are you two? Since you really have gone out on a date yet. Right now your just testing the waters. She's just playing with you (more head games) You can play along side that but if you really don't want to do that? Then just keep her in the friend zone, and then look elsewhere for someone you want to go out with then date that won't play these nonsense games with.
kassy Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 Have you asked her out on a date? If not, that is the problem. If you ask her out and she says no and doesn't try to reschedule then you have your answer. 2 months chatting... A bit long no?
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