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Is this girl nervous or not interested?


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So I've been talking to this girl in one of my classes for the past couple of weeks (in college, only see her like twice a week) and I can't really figure her behavior out. She won't talk much unless I get a conversation started between the two of us, yet she definitely seems interested in talking once we get going.

 

I've noticed she only really laughs when I do in conversation, doesn't really make eye contact, so initially I thought she might just be exceptionally shy. Today in one class she seemed to have little to no interest in talking, was very quiet when I tried talking to her before class, and left afterwards without saying anything. At that point I was thinking maybe it was her attempt at giving me the cold shoulder and decided to leave things be.

 

Fast forward to an afternoon class and much to my surprise she sits down next to me (in an almost empty classroom), so naturally I say hello and we talk for a bit before class starts. Still fairly quiet towards me, and seems much more loud and talkative towards other guys in the class in general. Still has problems with making eye contact with me (only glances at me for like a few seconds before looking away, even when talking).

 

And yes, I realize I'm over thinking all of this, lol, but I can't for the life of me figure this girl out. Help?

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If you like her just ask her out for lunch or something...

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If you like her just ask her out for lunch or something...

 

I have no problem doing that with girls who are obviously into me. But if she's giving me the cold shoulder what's the point?

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