Supergirl_x Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 OK so my ex is moving to a different country and we went out like 4 or 5 years ago we lost contact coz I deleted my fb. Anyway he broke up with me many years ago and I got with someone as he broke up with me for rebound.. Back then he hated my guts and told me after I was the other guy that he did still have feelings for me and was just needing time but I was all over the place and couldn't think straight. I have always loved my ex... And we've beef talking recently and only just has he told me he has always loved me and always had deep feelings for me same for me but he is moving away to Australia for a year for a company work thing.... So he says he can't have a relationship with me atm cause he will let me down again, I feel like I'm going crazy cos I'm so in love with him and I always have been, I want him so bad. I know he's really sad about it cause he says he has to stay alone. What if he meets someone abroad? I think I might be scarying him off I got quite hysterical but managed to calm myself down and tell him I understood. My head feels so full and full of unanswered questions... It's been like 4/5 years.... WHY NOW? I can't ask him to diss his job swap abroad.. I know he's excited about it, he has told me I am very important to him and I know a year isn't very long but he could get asked to stay longer..
Heroeric Posted October 10, 2013 Posted October 10, 2013 To answer your question, look back over the past 5 years. Have you ever actually gotten overhim? Was he a thought you would have at least once a week? Can you actually say you gotten over him? Thing is, when your truly passionate for someone that love stays till the other partner does something to ruin it, and sometimes not always that makes you lose it. And yes, maybe when breaking up you felt like he was the past, but it's like they say you don't know what you have till its gone. And once it settled in, you felt this way? Perhaps. Did the feelings start flowing back just recently when you talked to him? Or has it been for awhile? Without that answer I really can't give a clear response.
Author Supergirl_x Posted October 27, 2013 Author Posted October 27, 2013 To answer your question, look back over the past 5 years. Have you ever actually gotten overhim? Was he a thought you would have at least once a week? Can you actually say you gotten over him? Thing is, when your truly passionate for someone that love stays till the other partner does something to ruin it, and sometimes not always that makes you lose it. And yes, maybe when breaking up you felt like he was the past, but it's like they say you don't know what you have till its gone. And once it settled in, you felt this way? Perhaps. Did the feelings start flowing back just recently when you talked to him? Or has it been for awhile? Without that answer I really can't give a clear response. i havent gotten over him, no. yes i think about him every day and even when we lost contact i would still think about him. he says he loves me too and always will but that he cant put me through a ldr that far... but i love him so much i just wanna be with h wheither its half way across the country or living in the same house. surely if he loved me that he would just be with me?? confusing!
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