mixeypixey Posted October 8, 2013 Posted October 8, 2013 here it goes.. another drunken rant.. i don't care, nobody knows my real name and honestly I don't think any of my friends or her friends go to these kinds of websites let alone somehow click on this post out of many on this site.. so..... after 2 months of breaking up w her.. and still feeling the heartbreak and after effects and hence forth losing my mind.. and finding it hard to function and move on.. after a lot of thinking and seeing my complicated emotional psyche.. as much as I did love her and care about her.. I know why I made the decision I did make.. and I actually did want to break up with her only thing is I just liked her too much so it was a bit weird in that sense.. but as we were driving back one night I asked her if she was talking to anyone else and she said "yes.. someone's there and he's really sincere to me.. but I haven't made up my mind as to which guy (me or this other sorry mother******) to hang on to" Someone tell me love isn't blind? at that point I just burst out saying f*** this I don't wanna be with you anymore!! but then I pulled back and said wait no no I didn't mean that.. Things were already going a bit sour before that point and it was my fault.. but wouldn't any guy be like, what the hell is wrong with this girl??? why would I want to be with someone like that??? Honestly, I should have moved on already and be in a better place, or look for someone new.. but I dunno this girl put a spell on me and even till now I can't see how bad she was for me anyways..
conf Posted October 8, 2013 Posted October 8, 2013 Things were already going a bit sour before that point and it was my fault.. Yeah yeah... The dumpee always stays back and feels guilty for everything he has done. And what about the dumper? Does he ever tried to to solve the problems in mature way? Does he ever told to the dumpee that we need to change these parts of our relationship in order to work it out? He maybe felt he is superman and tried to solved it alone but in the proccess got tired because dumpee would not change as he thought that there is no problem... SHAME ON THE DUMPEE FOR NOT BEING MIND READER... Also some dumpers although they say the opposite they are not ready for mature relationships and they are hunting the butterflies of the in love feeling. It s not your fault dude. It s her fault. You may have change everything if she had told you, but in the end of the day she did not care You may have been the best bf for her and would not change the outcome, but only postpone it little more because of her huge guilt. Most people want what they don not have. That's the only true. Many of them need a slap from life to start appreciate what they have. The mark of this slap is called maturity Be strong dude! Move on! In the process of evolution the weak stay behind. She was emotional weak, are u? 1
Author mixeypixey Posted October 8, 2013 Author Posted October 8, 2013 Also some dumpers although they say the opposite they are not ready for mature relationships and they are hunting the butterflies of the in love feeling... Thanks a lot mang.. she even said that when there's a problem in the relationship and she feels bad about something she's not the type to pour her heart out and say how she feels.. well how the fk am i supposed to deal with that? It's crazy. When things got really bad after all the calamity I wanted to keep it going for the sake of it.. but I didn't know what to do.. and she didn't really help either.. she is still a kid.. so yeah.. but you're right intense feelings require a lot of maturity..
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