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I was given a car about a month ago, but then it broke down and I'm back to my bike. It's too bad because this was my first time having a car in a year and it was really stoked to start dating again with it. But now I'm back to square one. It's gonna take a little while to save up for the repairs. I'd still like to start dating again, so I was wondering: how important is a car when it comes to dating? I live in a metropolitan area so it's easy enough for me to get around, but I always thought an important part was picking her up and courting her.

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If there is public transport available and convenient, then a car is less important, IMO. Outside of that, look for a lady who enjoys riding and go on 'riding' dates. IME, there are plenty of female cyclists. One plus is they often sport outstanding thighs and gluts. Hubba, hubba.

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I agree if it's somewhere like London where it's common to use public transport, them it's ok.

But if it's somewhere where everyone drives, I would expect you to do your share of driving just as I would.

 

Wouldn't it be wiser to put the dating on the bad burner? You could repIr your car quicker ( possibly) without the expense of dating.

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Why dont you just pick her up with the bike? Does it have two seats? She might like it if she is adventurous or not, but worth a shot. Think about all the guys are picking her up in a car, but you come through there on the bike, she sill think this is different!

 

There is always going to be next one if it doesn't work out. :)

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Wouldn't it be wiser to put the dating on the bad burner? You could repIr your car quicker ( possibly) without the expense of dating.

 

Yeah logically that makes sense. But it's been two years since my last relationship and I just moved to a city where there are a ton of girls just walking around so I really want to give it another go.

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Why dont you just pick her up with the bike? Does it have two seats? She might like it if she is adventurous or not, but worth a shot. :)

 

Lol by bike I mean bicycle. And no, I don't have a tandem bike. I could ask her if she wanted to ride on my handlebars, but I only have one helmet ;).

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The only logical recourse is to steal a car.

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If you live someplace like New York or Chicago, where half the population takes the train or takes cabs, it'll be one thing. But I've personally found that riding the bus is the death knell for trying to date (unless you feel like going for a chick who's got four or five kids with different baby daddies - the bus system is lousy with those).

 

Honestly, I'd stick to girls you meet on the bus, because they're likely to have LESS of a prejudice about it. Most non-bus riding chicks have an irrational fear/prejudice against it... they view the bus as like a roving rape wagon or something, and they'll view you as a deadbeat for not having the cash to fix your car. Unless you're REALLY good-looking and a smooth operator (which the 'haven't had a gf in two years' thing pretty much rules out), those are your options.

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