rockstarmusician Posted December 3, 2004 Posted December 3, 2004 What does it mean when a guy that you've known for about a year and a half talks to you about his exes? One of my good guy friends was talking to me the other night about one of his exes and mentioned that she had IM'd him that night asking for help with a current relationship she was in. He told me that he talked her through it and asked what I thought of that. He said, "I was just trying to be polite" and I said, "I think it's actually kinda sweet you did that".. What does this mean though? Is he trying to hint at something or what?
LucreziaBorgia Posted December 3, 2004 Posted December 3, 2004 Has he always talked about his ex's/past relationships or is this something out of the blue? Are you interested in this 'good guy friend' as more than a friend, or do you get the idea that he might like you as more than a friend? If you guys are strictly friends and there's no chance it could be anything else - then talking about an ex just seems like a regular old conversation topic. Not sure what it could mean, out of context.
Author rockstarmusician Posted December 3, 2004 Author Posted December 3, 2004 We used to talk a lot last year as our classes at college would be close together but this year, he's got a totally different schedule than I do. The other night (when he mentioned this ex thing), I had invited him to this xmas party for my work. Then during the night, he mentioned that he had this "fling" with this girl that he pointed to. I do like him more than a friend...I just don't want to hurt our friendship if he doesn't like me.
packersgirl Posted December 3, 2004 Posted December 3, 2004 I have that same question!!! Out of the blue about a month and a half ago, this guy I was interested in tells me that he talked to his ex a few times that week. He proceeded to tell me that they had pretty much made ammends because their break-up was about as bad as it could get. He said that he talked to her about her current boyfriend and that she was saying all these nice things about him. It was really random. Since then he hasn't brought her up again. I honestly think he was trying to see how I'd react. I'm not a jealous person, and I thought it was great that they had talked and smoothed things out. Maybe thats what this guy was doing with you.
alphamale Posted December 3, 2004 Posted December 3, 2004 he is hinting at NOTHING whatsoever here.... it is women's talk one has to decipher and decode, no men's. men usually talk pretty directly and don't beat around the bush
Author rockstarmusician Posted December 3, 2004 Author Posted December 3, 2004 packers - Yeah, that's totally weird.
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