whatdreamsmaycome Posted October 8, 2013 Posted October 8, 2013 The ex just sent me a text... it was a text that wished me well with my endeavors and this upcoming season (work related). The last time he communicated with me, he asked me for a favor (again work related but I would have been off the clock), I wasn't able to do it and politely refused. That was 2 weeks ago. I feel like he sent the text because we finally crossed paths today as we both were walking down a narrow hall. I looked really cute today, too, I dressed up for a friend's bday. There's part of me that thinks he might just genuinely want to be friends... but then I think of how horribly he spoke about so many people behind their backs and then was so friendly to them in person. Then I also think about how he probably had many girls on the side when we were dating... and now that he might be dating other girls, I definitely don't want to be a girl on the side. See... this nonsense is already starting to make me overanalyze everything again
melell Posted October 8, 2013 Posted October 8, 2013 You know what, he probably is being genuine. I'm not going to jump in and say he is full of **** and it is all manipulation and about easing his guilt. But it really doesn't matter either way. Don't proceed in anything with him unless you are 100% comfortable with whatever circumstance or intentions. In my opinion, that is indifference, and when you get there, then you won't even need to think about it. Until then, just look out for you, and only worry about you. 1
thompkevin Posted October 8, 2013 Posted October 8, 2013 Yup, you are overanalyzing. No good will come of this. You are just going to ruin your mental peace. It was just a text. It doesn't mean anything. Unless he tells you he wants to get back together, it doesn't mean anything.
reddragon588 Posted October 8, 2013 Posted October 8, 2013 He can be genuine while still dropping breadcrumbs. Take the ego boost of knowing he is still thinking about you and don't respond and give him that same ego boost. I'm glad to hear you're seeing the negatives of the relationship as well, that's an important part towards recovery.
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