What does it mean when your ex contact you only few days after BU

[BePatient]

My ex contacted me only few days after BU

 

Though I've always been a dumper

I really dont understand this

I never contacted dumpee right after BU

Cause it hurts too much and it will give them helps (helps kill!)

If I want to contact them I normally would wait until they've moved on

 

When my ex broke up with me,it was shocking of course,But I didn't really beg or plead,It was like "I hope you realise this's gonna hurt me like hell,But if you have decided it,okay"

 

I knew begging and pleading won't do anything,I went straight to NC before I even know what it is.

(Just because I've been a dumper I know how to annoy them )

 

only 9 days after BU he sent me a text and asked me something

it was something quite important so I answered it (it really was,not an excuse)

Later it became like a chitchat I was like NOPE THIS ISN'T GOING TO HAPPEN!

Then ended the conversation right away

 

Few days after he contacted me again!

Of course I ignored it,I just don't understand!

I can't think of any reason besides he's feeling guilty

 

I know him well When he makes decision he would think it through

So I don't think he would regret only after two weeks

 

I do have faith that he will come back eventually though

the reasons that we broke up isn't because someone was cheating or he doesn't love me anymore

 

anyway,what does this mean!

[ConfusedHumanBeing]

My ex contacted me only few days after BU

 

Though I've always been a dumper

I really dont understand this

I never contacted dumpee right after BU

Cause it hurts too much and it will give them helps (helps kill!)

If I want to contact them I normally would wait until they've moved on

 

When my ex broke up with me,it was shocking of course,But I didn't really beg or plead,It was like "I hope you realise this's gonna hurt me like hell,But if you have decided it,okay"

 

I knew begging and pleading won't do anything,I went straight to NC before I even know what it is.

(Just because I've been a dumper I know how to annoy them )

 

only 9 days after BU he sent me a text and asked me something

it was something quite important so I answered it (it really was,not an excuse)

Later it became like a chitchat I was like NOPE THIS ISN'T GOING TO HAPPEN!

Then ended the conversation right away

 

Few days after he contacted me again!

Of course I ignored it,I just don't understand!

I can't think of any reason besides he's feeling guilty

 

I know him well When he makes decision he would think it through

So I don't think he would regret only after two weeks

 

I do have faith that he will come back eventually though

the reasons that we broke up isn't because someone was cheating or he doesn't love me anymore

 

anyway,what does this mean!

 

Doesnt really mean anything in your aspect. Only really to release guilt and are breadcrumbs. All for HIS purpose....not yours.

[flitzanu]

your ex that dumped you can contact you and talk to you because they decided they don't want to be with you. they are fine being friends and only friends with you.

[BePatient]

Well its sad but true

 

NO CONTACT

NO CONTACT

NO CONTACT

 

 

DON'T GIVE THEM POWER TO **** YOU OVER

NOT A CHANCE

[Beautiful diamond]

It means he wants a friend with benefits. He dumped you, then waited days to contact you. What do you think he was doing in those days? Crying? No, he dumped you. Sewing? Maybe. Over thinking everything in your the past? Doubtful.

 

BePatient, he was trying to get a new girl/sex partner/anything and since that clearly failed, he came back to his stand by. You. He is a player. The contact was to leave the door open, to reconcile, in case he can't get a new girl soon.

 

Time to block his number.