rossi128 Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 Been thinking about this after reading baby other stories about exes getting back in contact for many reasons like guilt ect. And what would I do in that situation. Given this criteria what are the chances of them contacting me? 3 month RS ended because of communication issues and possible unresolved ex issues She's in a new RS now (after only a few weeks) Last contact she said don't contact me again It's been about 40 days I was caring and considerate with her I don't think she would now shes with someone but if that ended I think she might? I wouldn't take her back though if that was an option.
headinthecloud Posted October 8, 2013 Posted October 8, 2013 It sounds like you're still in contact with her (eg. Knowing that she's seeing someone). The first thing is go NC and focus all those "what if" energies on bettering yourself and finding a better match. 3mos is too short a time to know someone. Try not to focus on what might happen but rather create your own future.
flitzanu Posted October 8, 2013 Posted October 8, 2013 Been thinking about this after reading baby other stories about exes getting back in contact for many reasons like guilt ect. And what would I do in that situation. Given this criteria what are the chances of them contacting me? 3 month RS ended because of communication issues and possible unresolved ex issues She's in a new RS now (after only a few weeks) Last contact she said don't contact me again It's been about 40 days I was caring and considerate with her I don't think she would now shes with someone but if that ended I think she might? I wouldn't take her back though if that was an option. exactly what about your story tells you there is any chance your ex is going to contact you?
Beautiful diamond Posted October 8, 2013 Posted October 8, 2013 She might if she is lonely and desperate. Three moths was still the honeymoon phase. You really don't know her that well. I would avoid contact AT ALL COST! She sounds shady jumping from man to man. You have to respect yourself enough to not allow her to reenter your life.
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