ponchsox Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 I have these dreams about my ex and then when I wake up, reality hits me that I'm no longer with her. Does anyone suffer with this? It sucks!
LifeWithoutMiMi Posted October 8, 2013 Posted October 8, 2013 I know that I had nightmares during the first week after the breakup. Although I never remembered my dreams, I woke up suddenly at night and I was sweating. Then, I felt depressed that my ex broke up with me. But now, after 2 months, I am getting better now, at least I don't wake up suddenly at night. Hope you'll be getting better soon!
eric85 Posted October 8, 2013 Posted October 8, 2013 Every night I have those dreams, some good some bad. Then I wake up and its still all I think about all day all night. I am in complete misery.
coolheadal Posted October 8, 2013 Posted October 8, 2013 Well you been with the EX for such a long time, your mine remembers them so you will start dreaming of the good times with them. Then when you wake-up they're gone. This also in your deep subconscious mind, past experiences still in there. Sure there are ways to clear these unhealthy connection causes an emotional and energy drain creating debris unexplained phobias, anger, fears, grief, anxiety, stress, and negative emotions that can create puzzling physical and health problems in your life. This is one way to deal with this.
Reels Posted October 8, 2013 Posted October 8, 2013 I had once, and obviously some more times, but not really so many times.
JoelBarish Posted October 8, 2013 Posted October 8, 2013 I dream of her every damn night. I look forward to the time I dream of other girls. 1
BetterEveryDay Posted October 8, 2013 Posted October 8, 2013 I have a friend who claims she is able to control what she dreams about, to some extent. She also uses a dream journal. There are a number of articles online about controlling your dreams. If they are causing you pain, this might be worth looking into.
Mariposa10 Posted October 8, 2013 Posted October 8, 2013 Ever since I went NC, I keep dreaming about my ex, I hate it so much!! 1
Quintessential Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 I've been NC for a month now. During the first week I dreamed of him most nights. They were horrible. Fortunately they have stopped now. I found that whenever I had one I'd feel miserable all morning.
joe86 Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 In the whole time I've known her I've only dreamt about her once. A few weeks after she left me I had a dream she was in hospital with cancer & for some reason I was staying at hers & her dad was there. He told me the only way to get her back was to talk to her doctor. I had no idea what to make of it.
internalChange Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 Hell yea. A lot during the first 10 months of the breakup. The break up has been more than a year now, so I rarely get them now. They are all nightmares man, one of them, which i find it funny now, I dreamed of her pregnant with a fat ass bf, that was the worst dream ever. It will get better soon, dont worry
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