mike98765 Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 I met this girl 1 year ago. She had a boyfriend when we met so nothing happened. They ended up breaking up and we started heavily flirting. Anyway ever since they broke up in February we started hanging out and talking several times a week. The girl is smart, beautiful, great career and rarely drinks. (I am done with party girls) She is 27 I am 26. We haven't hung out in 3 weeks. That hang out was great, so much chemistry, Her talking about future stuff. Me and this girl have very similar long term goals. Anyway I have had a ton of family stuff going on. Grandmother is sick and dying so I have been insanely distant with this girl. Barely talked in the last 2 weeks, She told me 2 and a half weeks ago she really likes me and wants to see where things go. I barely responded. I am bad with emotions. I think I hurt her. I miss her. But have I been distant too long to reach out?
Philosoraptor Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 You'll find out when you reach out. But you've got nothing to lose by reaching out, either you have a chance or you're in the same place you are now. I'd do it sooner than later though and explain everything that has been happening in your life. My condolences for your grandmother.
kassy Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 Probably not. Apologise for not being in touch because of grandmas and explain the situation if she doesn't know it and say that you miss her and would really like to see her and see where this goes. The. Ask her out on a specific date. Ie would you like to go to x on x at x time? Make sure you give her a call and not text this.
Lansing Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 I agree, you should call her and tell her/explain what you said here. If she does really care for you she will understand.
Author mike98765 Posted October 7, 2013 Author Posted October 7, 2013 I will call her today after work.
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