gaius Posted October 8, 2013 Posted October 8, 2013 Well, I'm with ya on this one, TFY. I find it pretty gross when either sex over 45 hits on 20-somethings. It just grossed me out when the youngin's would hit on me when I was doing OLD. I told them I was going to tell their mothers on them. Blech. One of the bad things about OLD, you have to list your age. I wonder how you would have felt if you didn't know how old they were. 2
Author skela Posted October 8, 2013 Author Posted October 8, 2013 Loving the responses from the younger guys. What do I have to lose right?!! 1
Skyraider829 Posted October 8, 2013 Posted October 8, 2013 Loving the responses from the younger guys. What do I have to lose right?!! You have nothing to lose, so get crackin'. You have my support ma'am.
Skyraider829 Posted October 8, 2013 Posted October 8, 2013 One of the bad things about OLD, you have to list your age. I wonder how you would have felt if you didn't know how old they were. The thing is, two people would probably get along just fine without knowing their calendar ages but then if you revealed the dates of birth, I wonder how the reactions would vary? Some wouldn't care and some would I suppose. Screw time - if you two people hit it off well, all the power to them. 1
Author skela Posted October 8, 2013 Author Posted October 8, 2013 so, if I can finally get this guy on a date - no the first date should I just be laid back or drop hints about my intentions. Kiss on first date is good right.
deathandtaxes Posted October 8, 2013 Posted October 8, 2013 so, if I can finally get this guy on a date - no the first date should I just be laid back or drop hints about my intentions. Kiss on first date is good right. Sex on the first date if that's what you want.
Mascara Posted October 8, 2013 Posted October 8, 2013 But you said that's all you're looking for? If you just want a FWB or ONS thing, go right in.
Skyraider829 Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 so, if I can finally get this guy on a date - no the first date should I just be laid back or drop hints about my intentions. Kiss on first date is good right. Why of course it is. A little smooch does no harm. Best of luck and I do hope it plays out very well.
crederer Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 Mom, I keep telling you to stay off of these boards. But in all seriousness OP, I have a "girlfriend" in her late 40"s. Im in my mid 20's. It;s strictly for sex. She wants more, but cmon!
Author skela Posted October 9, 2013 Author Posted October 9, 2013 OMG. So funny! No, I don't want more. What can I ask from a guy in his 20's when I'm in my 40's ??? I'm sure he realizes that I'm just looking for fun, right???
deathandtaxes Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 OMG. So funny! No, I don't want more. What can I ask from a guy in his 20's when I'm in my 40's ??? I'm sure he realizes that I'm just looking for fun, right??? No worries. you're overthinking things. Have a good time! 1
Criticality Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 Are you sure he knows how old you are? (Wow! That came out wrong!) Are you sure he knows your age? Here's the thing. You mentioned you look really good for your age, right? Some guys aren't very good at judging a woman's age, and some don't really think about it, when they see a woman they're attracted to. Some younger guys have a thing for older women, but I don't think that's the case here. He probably just saw a an attractive woman, turned on the charm and got lucky. (Well so far!) What I'm trying to say: Don't be surprised or weirded out, if he thinks you're in your thirties!
spiderowl Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 If a guy needs to take that long to check his schedule and get back to you, he's either a workaholic with no time for women, a narcissist who thinks women are going to hang around waiting for him, or he's not interested. Interested guys will let you know when they are free, as quickly as possible.
Author skela Posted October 10, 2013 Author Posted October 10, 2013 Yes, he told me he specifically checked my age when I purchased my car. It's weird he checks in and says he's really busy and asks for more details about date but doesn't finalize.
ascendotum Posted October 10, 2013 Posted October 10, 2013 Yes, he told me he specifically checked my age when I purchased my car. It's weird he checks in and says he's really busy and asks for more details about date but doesn't finalize. I think you said you were going to a specific event...something about location changing. You said you asked him out and he agreed. Who suggested the date activity? What's he have to do to finalize...organize to pick you up? I know you just want a fbuddy, but this guy has had issues over his schedule (so busy) each time you try to organize something. Just keep in mind that this may become his norm and you may end up strictly an every now and then booty call late at night when he has time and no other prospects, which may be not be good enough for your desires.
Author skela Posted October 10, 2013 Author Posted October 10, 2013 He has to pick day we go. We know where just need when :-). 2
Author skela Posted October 10, 2013 Author Posted October 10, 2013 Okay, really not figuring this guy out and starting to totally lose interest. He emails asking to confirms available dates and venue location but doesn't finalize actual date and still hasn't. WTF why bother ask? Ready to just say NEXT!
deathandtaxes Posted October 10, 2013 Posted October 10, 2013 Next! Either he can't get his stuff together or he is just stringing you along. Either way, how does it make you feel? 1
Author skela Posted October 10, 2013 Author Posted October 10, 2013 Like I'm begging. I have given him outs. He should have just taken. Said, my schedule is way to busy or something. Why play the game? His attitude has taken away the appeal of taking him to bed LOL
thefooloftheyear Posted October 10, 2013 Posted October 10, 2013 Like I'm begging. I have given him outs. He should have just taken. Said, my schedule is way to busy or something. Why play the game? His attitude has taken away the appeal of taking him to bed LOL I commend this guy...You are handing it to him on a silver platter and he is probably wondering why you seem a bit desperate..I know if I was him, it would be a red flag... Or maybe he's just not that into you... TFY
Author skela Posted October 10, 2013 Author Posted October 10, 2013 Well, I don't think I am coming off as desperate since he emailed me to get more information and I answered his questions but didn't respond again. Someone asked how this is making ME feel. I asked him out, he asked for info, I provided it, haven't contacted him again and decided to move on because I think he is either not secure enough to handle an older woman or is just a head banger. 1
Skyraider829 Posted October 10, 2013 Posted October 10, 2013 Sorry to hear that he's acting like that. Maybe you should stop the contact and let him coast, if he comes around and wondering what's up then you can make your intentions known. The guy's got to be smart than this...I would already be ten steps ahead.
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