nightporter Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 I want to hear you say leaving me was the biggest mistake you ever made, I want you to crumble at the mention of my name, I want you to dream of me like I dream of you and I want it to be painful, I want you to wonder where I sleep and I want it to destroy you, I don't want to want any of these things... I just want to be able to let you go 9
JDPT Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 You should only adhere to the very last statement. 3
Beautiful diamond Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 Don't fall for it. The exes that seem to be happy and moved on, are dying inside. The fake happiness is all to convince you they are fine. And the sad part is when the grief and pain finally hits them, they will struggle 100x worse and probably hurt a new person int he process. Feel solace that the one who laughs last, laughs loudest 1
cherry_cola Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 If it helps, I could have written this post a few months back. I PROMISE you it gets easier. I thought I'd be SO happy if I ever got an email from her saying she missed me, even if she didn't want to reconcile. Well, I got that email this week, 11 months after we split, and 5 months after having NO contact whatsoever. Ya know what? It didn't make me feel as happy as I thought. There was a very small amount of happiness, in that I now know I DID mean something, when she just upped and left, moved on and got engaged to somebody else whilst I lost weight, had anxiety attacks and cried every day. But honestly, it wasn't as good a feeling as I thought. I guess I'm beginning to detach. And you will too! But it takes time. Save your post, and look back on it in 6 months. I think (and hope!) you'll not feel so strongly about it. P.S I'm not diminishing your feelings at all, like I said, I've been there. But there really is light at the end of the tunnel!
qila rose Posted October 8, 2013 Posted October 8, 2013 do you still in contact with her?when a girl keep in silence,it doesnt mean that she's not missing you.doesnt mean that she doesnt care about you.If you really love her,then you must fight for your love.be a man.you must take the first step..maybe she's waiting for you now.
oracle Posted October 8, 2013 Posted October 8, 2013 I agree with you. I got to first hand watch my ex start to officially date a guy, and I got to watch it go down in flames over three months, to the point where the guy he was seeing was seeking me out to bad mouth my ex to me (retard thought I was going to commiserate with him lol) Its nice to see on some level.. but there is no happiness in it at all. There was some solace in knowing the issues are his and not mine. Nobody wins in a break up. The only win is when you can finally detach and they no longer have power over you. If it helps, I could have written this post a few months back. I PROMISE you it gets easier. I thought I'd be SO happy if I ever got an email from her saying she missed me, even if she didn't want to reconcile. Well, I got that email this week, 11 months after we split, and 5 months after having NO contact whatsoever. Ya know what? It didn't make me feel as happy as I thought. There was a very small amount of happiness, in that I now know I DID mean something, when she just upped and left, moved on and got engaged to somebody else whilst I lost weight, had anxiety attacks and cried every day. But honestly, it wasn't as good a feeling as I thought. I guess I'm beginning to detach. And you will too! But it takes time. Save your post, and look back on it in 6 months. I think (and hope!) you'll not feel so strongly about it. P.S I'm not diminishing your feelings at all, like I said, I've been there. But there really is light at the end of the tunnel! 1
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