Another dream about her

[Jord11]

7 months nc with this girl and I had another dream ugh she won't go away

[Never Again]

Sorry to hear that. I swear it gets better if you do your best to keep yourself busy and forget.

 

I've been 4 months on super limited contact (can't go full NC until this week) and it's been slow, but she doesn't dominate my thoughts anymore. I still have dreams and reminders, but she's gradually becoming a ghost.

 

You'll get there.

[JDPT]

I recall those debilitating dreams. A few months ago I had a dream about her for three consecutive days. I could believe it, 3 days in a row. That whole week was he'll to say the least. Fast forwarding to now, I had a dream about her, we were back together but in my dream I was not happy of being back together with her. You see, this is my subconscious telling me that I just don't want her back and that I'm slowly moving forward. We are all working towards that, be gentle with yourself and keep taking it a day at a time.

[nightporter]

You're not alone. My girlfriend of 5 years left me 3 months ago. Every time I start to think she's fading from my thoughts I have a dream that we are still together and I wake up feeling terrible. I know these things take time but I just want it over already. Whenever I dream of her I spend the following day desperately wanting to make contact. I obsess over what she is doing with her life and who she has replaced me with. It sucks but I've been here before and with personal experience i know that one day she will be a distant memory. The same will apply to you. Someday you will meet someone new and the girl who broke your heart wont matter anymore, you'll have a new heartbreaker in your life.

[Beautiful diamond]

I have dreamt of my ex too. It's not that you still want them but you can't help all the memories. Best to accept it and not dwell.

[reddragon588]

It's your subconscious working out issues. It's a good thing.