ua2004 Posted December 2, 2004 Posted December 2, 2004 I am 20 years old and in college. I noticed this girl in one of my classes last semester and always wanted to talk to her but never got the nerve to do so. I also see her at church sometimes and sometimes at the gym. Well, the other day she was on the treadmill right next tome and she smiled and we made eye contact. I finally got up the nerve to talk to her. I asked her if she went to my church and she said she did. We carried on a 4 or 5 minute conversiation pretty smoothly. I wasn't the only one asking questions either. Right before the conversation ended she told me that if I see her around to say hey. What does this mean? I felt an immediate connection and attraction to this girl, it was kind of weird. I have never really felt that connection with a girl that quickly. What should I do from here? I don't want to look like this jerk stalker that is trying to hit on her at the gym. How should I go about asking her out? Do you think she is interested? I just felt something weird that I think it could be something and I don't want to regret not doing anything about it. The next time I will probably see her will be this Sunday at church. How should I approach the situation? I don't even know if she will remember my face. Thanks for the help and input.
tattoomytoe Posted December 2, 2004 Posted December 2, 2004 ys, she sounds interested to me. she said to say hi when you see her, so she wants you to say hi. i would give it a week and see how things go....maybe you will suddenly see her more than you were cause she wants to se you too.
NiCoLe20 Posted December 2, 2004 Posted December 2, 2004 well when u see her again introduce urself and say hi....get info about her ask her hername, age, what shes goin to school for, the first step is getting to know her just talk to her like u would with any friend
LucreziaBorgia Posted December 2, 2004 Posted December 2, 2004 When you see her, say "hi!" and go talk to her. Let her know that you are happy to see her and chit-chat with her a bit. They say, "hey, I almost forgot - would it be ok if I got your phone number/email address? I'd love to give you a call sometime. Then... call her. Soon. You don't want to get the "He's Just Not That Into You" curse - where she thinks if you don't call her the next day, you aren't interested! During the phone call ask her if she would like to go workout together, go hang out somewhere, something like that where you can comfortably talk and take it to the next step: asking her out on an actual date. Consider the 'hanging out' as 'pre-dating'. Something to break the ice so that you don't have one of those awkward "I have no idea what to say" first dates. You want to be comfortable, so get to know her a little before moving to the "actual date".
tanbark813 Posted December 2, 2004 Posted December 2, 2004 If you see her at church, just ask her if she wants to go get some coffee afterwards.
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