Kobri Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 Im a guy the age of 20 and i need some guidance. About 7 months ago my ex gf and i broke up, she broke up with me after a week because we moved way too fast and she told me that if something happened in the future then she would be fine going out again. Well we never talked much during the 7 months until i texted her one night just to see if she wanted to join a Facebook page of my friends and she started asking me how i was and things like that, we talked for a while and we met up and hang out about a week ago. Here is where i need help, i want her, i feel like we had something special but it went unfinished. I plan on telling her how i feel, just basically asking her to let me take her to dinner and see what happens. And to tell her that i care about her and that i can't live without her, because i can't. I spent 7 months and i did fine but i would think about her on occasion. She graduates from college this year and if i don't make a move i will miss my chance. I need to know how to deliver it to her, things to avoid saying and where i should do it at? anyone have any ideas? Thanks
Vogeltron Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 Most 20 year old women are all over the place. If you feel strongly about her. See if you can meet up with her and figure out a way to tell her exactly what she means to you. If she doesn't get it, is too stupid etc. Then you need to move on with life. Bro, I was always a pretty mature person. Even at 18 to about 23. Whatever you consider college age. We do stupid things are perspective on life is not the same as when you get into your mid 20's. I will live and die by honesty is best policy. If she isn't into it then you are better off speaking your mind and moving on and knowing she is an moron and no need to look back.
Author Kobri Posted October 7, 2013 Author Posted October 7, 2013 She is actually 24, much older than me because like you, i am very mature for my age. At 18 i was dating a 22 year old, so I'm at that point right now. But thank you for the help.
I-Love-Liberty Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 I would avoid saying things like "I can't live without you". I would do what you said, just take her to dinner and see what happens, you should be able to get a better idea of things, maybe something eventful happens or maybe it just leads to another date. But I wouldn't throw myself at her.
hasekninh Posted October 17, 2013 Posted October 17, 2013 Just be honest and tell her how you feel man. You might be surprise what she might tell you or maybe not. Just be honest and open up to her .Ask her where she stand and how she feel. I hope she honest and open to you as well. You might not have a chance to tell her again and you might regret it later. Tell her now, what you waiting for. "Girl they don't like to wait". You might say something weird or sound stupid, but at least your honest.
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