Orije Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 Lets say you have a crush and you two like each other very much, but are not yet settled down to dating yet and you don't see each other often and plan to do something together. You both plan out in a months advance to hang out at Shocktoberfest with just the two of you. Time then goes by and when you ask about the event with her she tells of inviting her friends over who are a few guy friends. You become a little heartbroken at the fact that the date that was supposed to be you two became a friendzy party. So you try to talk to her and explain that you wanted it to be just the two of you. Does that make you selfish? She then goes on to say that you don't need to go and she will hang out with her friends, but will play another time so you two can hang out. Would you be upset and would you go along to the shocktoberfest with her and her friends?
Eggplant Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 If she were interested in you, she would do nothing to ruin the potential for a date alone together. Conversely, if she's not interested, an easy way out is to invite a lot of friends. There are other fish in the sea.
Author Orije Posted October 7, 2013 Author Posted October 7, 2013 Lets say that she accidentally invited her friends along, but apologized and said if you don't want to go you don't have to and she will plan another time for you two to actually hang out. Would you use the time to get used to her friends and get closer to her or do you think it will become a third wheel type of situation. This girl has talked about dating in future time when she is more available
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