wanting more Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 There's a big event on Friday (we dont work together but still in the same industry)and I found out that xMM will be there. Not sure how I feel. Not worried about "falling back in his arms" at all. Just not sure how things will go. It's going to feel a little weird being in the same room with him. I don't want to talk to him, but everyone there knows we worked together before.
browneyed Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 I don't know how big the event is, but I'd avoid him if at all possible and attempt to not speak to him. Does he know you are going to be there? Is this an event his spouse would attend? I'm 6 months out from d-day and I don't know I'd react if I was in the same room with my MM. I'd be nervous about it and given that I wouldn't necessarily be able to gauge how I'd feel about it or react to it till it happened, I would probably do my best to avoid him. For me personally its one of those things where I could prepare all I want but after not seeing someone for that long there's a flood of emotions that might hit me and I wouldn't necessarily know which one would win in that moment.
Author wanting more Posted October 10, 2013 Author Posted October 10, 2013 I don't know how big the event is, but I'd avoid him if at all possible and attempt to not speak to him. Does he know you are going to be there? Is this an event his spouse would attend? I'm 6 months out from d-day and I don't know I'd react if I was in the same room with my MM. I'd be nervous about it and given that I wouldn't necessarily be able to gauge how I'd feel about it or react to it till it happened, I would probably do my best to avoid him. For me personally its one of those things where I could prepare all I want but after not seeing someone for that long there's a flood of emotions that might hit me and I wouldn't necessarily know which one would win in that moment. I don't know if his W will be there. It's not an event for spouses but thru the grapevine Ive had people question me what's going on with him because apparently his W attends everything with him, and if she can't actually go to the event, she stays in the hotel room waiting for him. I do plan on avoiding him, just weird knowing I'll actually see him
Author wanting more Posted October 10, 2013 Author Posted October 10, 2013 I'm voting for a kick in the nutsack. This would be my exception to my rule of never getting Close to him again, just to give a good slap And a serious kick to his area that would Definately have him thinking about how I feel about him now for a long time
Purepony Posted October 10, 2013 Posted October 10, 2013 I'm voting for a kick in the nutsack. Ill buy that for a dollar! The best post in the thread
BetrayedH Posted October 11, 2013 Posted October 11, 2013 This would be my exception to my rule of never getting Close to him again, just to give a good slap And a serious kick to his area that would Definately have him thinking about how I feel about him now for a long time All in good fun. But if you decide to do something dramatic, please post video. Yours is a story where you ended up under every wheel of the bus, then he backed up and drove over you again. And then he left you there. I wouldn't mind seeing him get a little of what's coming to him.
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