Drewx2 Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 We had been on a few very good dates and I really thought that she was into me. Then all of the sudden she went cold. One weekend I was trying to get her to come over for drinks and she responded with “you always want to hang out but you act like you’re not interested.” I told her I was interested but that she seemed to be moving away. She told me she "moves away from people when she feels she can’t open up to them." I went to talk to her in person and told her how much liked her and that I was moving slow because I was shy. The next day she sent me a text and told me that she thought I was attractive but that she only wanted to be friends. A couple weeks after this I tried to open up to her & told her some of my insecurities but I think that might of made it worse…probably made me sound a little oversensitive. The way I interpreted her messages; "I move away from people when I feel like I can't open up to them"- I want to open up to you. Or I want you to open up to me. "You act like you're not interested" - Tell me i'm pretty. Tell me you like me. Is she socially immature? I just don't understand how a 21 year old women could text these words to someone they have no intentions of pursuing. I've been very persistent with her but nothing has worked.
crederer Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 Bottom line is that she's not interested in you. The reasoning doesn't matter. I feel for you man. been there myself but at least it was short lived and you didn't get all attached.
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