Bootsky Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 -Im 25 shes 21....So I met this girl a little over a year ago in Sept 2012, through mutual friends at a small party. After we met I got her number and we began talking regularly for a few months. The next time I spent time with her I ended up going to her apt and staying the night with her. After I stayed the night we didn't hang out again until this July. We didn't talk much between Oct and this July, as she lives about 30 mins away in a different city and she was in a short relationship over that time. I initiated contact with her again asking if she would want to get together some night, and she instantly was all about hanging out with me. We went out the weekend of me asking her and everything went well, ending with her saying we need to stop being strangers (that was in July). After that night I have been to her apt a few times and spent time with her, every time I have seen her we have at least kissed or made out. She seems to always put the breaks on any attempt of me trying to take things further.......So, I didn't talk to her after the second night of me going to her place because we both started classes, and she went a bit cold after that....I understood this and after two weeks of no talking I asked her out on an official date (last weekend), and again instantly she was all about it, I ended up staying at her place all weekend and things went good (still no sex)....So after that night she text me non stop all last week, and into this weekend, I asked her to hang out this weekend but she was busy at her parents house for the weekend. She said maybe we can do something next weekend. I said that would be good. She said perfect. So that brings me here, I am slowly falling for this girl Im sure of it...I get the feeling however that she is slowly going cold on me again and not talking much this weekend....I realize she has been busy but I also noticed that last week sometime she tweeted about me but shortly after that deleted it.....So I am wondering if she is waiting for me to make a commitment 100%, or if she has realized that she doesn't see things going any further than where we are. Im not sure if I should give her a call and make plans for next weekend now, or wait for her to initiate contact again before I do? (its unusual for her to not text me for this long) and I am not the clingy type who constantly texts or calls a girl....but I am wondering if by not contacting her she is getting the wrong vibe from me. Thoughts?
Shepp Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 I don't really understand! I don't think it's that unusual that she won't put out after 1 official date - especially as you seem to do this all the time (show and intrest briefly and then disappear). I would assum she's just trying to stay classy mate, imp which case yeah she's gonna want you to be more serious before sex.
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