Help! its not the first time!

[rowi1116]

help! i have been dating a guy for 4 months now and have not been honest about the fact that i have had sex before...what should i do? help! anyone experience this before? guys what do you think???? please!

[Chan]

i think you should be honest and open with him about it,so does he think ur a virgin?and that he'l be your first how would you feel if he told you he hadnt had sex before when he had, it may not even be that much of a big deal to him but if you sleep with him and were dis honest about it that could be really hurtful,good luck what ever you choose to do or say

[bluechocolate]

How old are you? Is it at all reasonable for him to expect that you're a virgin?

 

If someone wanted to know about my sexual past - first I would ask what they wanted to know for - & then I would tell them it was none of their business.

[rowi1116]

i am not a virgin, he thinks i am, there was my first boyfriend. should i tell the guy i am dating now?

[EC]

If he thinks your a virgin yes I think you should tell him the truth. He deserves to know. It would suck for him to think he was your first and took your innocence when he didn't.

I thought you were lying about how many guys...if thats the case you can decide to tell him or its really none of his business.

[morrigan]

I'm agree with bluechocolate on this one. If your boyfriend asks, I would ask him why he is concerned, and he should then be forthcoming about any prior experiences of his own as well.

 

Your virginity or lack of is your private business; I wouldn't date a guy if he had hangups about a girl if she wasn't one.

 

You shouldn't lie about STD's, but if you feel comfortable with this guy, I'd say right out you had been with someone previously and leave it at that. He doesn't need to know any details.

[fiyah]

have to be honest

[zero_pistons]

tell him..

 

if i really liked a girl and she lied about that and i found out afterwards...it would kill me.........

 

-zero