peanutgallery Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 Is Sexting THAT common? A guy sending pics of himself sparing very few details... After a week and a half? Then following it up with "did you have any idea THAT body was under the hip clothing... When we met?". Or "does this make you want to do things to me?". Common? Not an issue or red flag?
bentleychic Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 After a week? haha No. I've had guys ask ME for pis in less time than that, though. (And gotten laughed at and blocked for it.) If I'm not involved with a guy, I don't want to see their junk.
Author peanutgallery Posted October 7, 2013 Author Posted October 7, 2013 Well the guy wants to be exclusive after a coffee and a lunch... And after a week of texting. Girl starts to pull back... Guy starts sending pics in low slung towel.
cif Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 Well the guy wants to be exclusive after a coffee and a lunch... And after a week of texting. Girl starts to pull back... Guy starts sending pics in low slung towel. Probably because he figures he has nothing to lose. Cant imagine guys respect women they do this to in the first few weeks. 1
Ok Good Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 all I can say is "ick" and if someone does that to me I bounce
Author peanutgallery Posted October 7, 2013 Author Posted October 7, 2013 That guy had been sexting and texting that girl a lot for several days. He even told her wanted to be exclusive and consider an amazing long term future... How does one go about shutting this down? Guy is VERY hung up... Tectonic back and say ... Sorry but this won't work for me and block?
Ok Good Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 That guy had been sexting and texting that girl a lot for several days. He even told her wanted to be exclusive and consider an amazing long term future... How does one go about shutting this down? Guy is VERY hung up... Tectonic back and say ... Sorry but this won't work for me and block? Those are for sure red flags! If you want to educate, you might tell him his behavior was too much too soon and you're outta there and then block (he for sure we'll try to defend himself)
Author peanutgallery Posted October 7, 2013 Author Posted October 7, 2013 Yeah, he will surely freak out. By phone? Or is by text okay? He will get upset ... No doubt.
Carenth Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 Forward the picture to his mother with a note about his son sending unsolicited photos such as these to random women. He won't make the same mistake again. Seriously though this is not normal behavior and is a massive red flag.
Author peanutgallery Posted October 7, 2013 Author Posted October 7, 2013 It would be one thing If he was sending pics of his muscles... But this apparently was FAR lower than expected. He followed up by saying he loved sending them, but was also hoping to turn her on.
candie13 Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 Run. (beyond red flags so much that they have totally disappeared from sight)
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