stormer1092 Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 Well I've been NC for about 2 months and I feel allot better now that I have a clear head and I can say I'm over the breakup. But I still miss my ex. We actually had contact a few days ago and it went really well for the little we texted. I just said "I know you were upset that I didn't reply to any of your texts I just needed my space" NOT APOLOGIZING (she was texting me at least every other day) but the first thing she replied with was "its ok, did you ever try to contact your father?" It actually made me feel good because she knows I have father issues and for her to care enough and ask that fast well it just felt good. I also asked her if she went to the new store we just got and she replied to that fairly fast and nothing but positive from her. But other then that it wasn't really anything. Except another text from her randomly saying "I still sometimes miss you" I guess I'm just at the point now where I don't know what to say to her? I'm almost scared to say the wrong thing and push her away for good... I need some help. I still care for her and would like to have her in my life. Thoughts? Please no negative replies either... I have enough of that.
I-Love-Liberty Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 What do you say to her when she tells you that she misses you?
Author stormer1092 Posted October 7, 2013 Author Posted October 7, 2013 What do you say to her when she tells you that she misses you? I didn't say anything. I kinda just froze.
lindsay1990 Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 Do you want to be friends or do you want to maybe reconcile?
Romaks Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 I think I would still leave the ball in her court. From my perspective, if my ex gf told me that she missed me now, she'd be talking about how she misses talking to me and my company...nothing romantic even though that's what I want of course.
Author stormer1092 Posted October 7, 2013 Author Posted October 7, 2013 I think I would still leave the ball in her court. From my perspective, if my ex gf told me that she missed me now, she'd be talking about how she misses talking to me and my company...nothing romantic even though that's what I want of course. I'm still leaving the ball in her court man. She just suggested meeting up. Still don't know when.
Simon Phoenix Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 I think I would still leave the ball in her court. From my perspective, if my ex gf told me that she missed me now, she'd be talking about how she misses talking to me and my company...nothing romantic even though that's what I want of course. Yep, that's usually what they mean when they throw out the "I miss you" line. "I miss you" does not mean "I want to be with you", which dumpees tend to misinterpret.
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