Dyamond Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 My boyfriend (25) and me (22) are about 6 months into dating. He lives alone....and I don't. As a college student i currently live with my brother(35) that is very strict with the house rules. I plan on moving out after i graduate a year from now. On Saturday I invited my boyfriend over since i had the house to myself for a couple of hours....my boyfriend who was at work at the time said he could not come since he was working. 2 hour later i got a call from him saying he is outside my apartment building and wants to come in. I just got out of the shower and told him to give me a few minutes to get dress cause i live in apartments setting and it would not be appropriate to get the building door wrapped in a bath towel. He got mad and said he is in a hurry and have to get back to work he just wants to see me for 5 minutes. I ask him to come tomorrow instead since ill be alone again and that will also be his day off.(since he was in a rush, i thought it was a better option). He got mad over the phone and said to forget it and could not believe i would not let him him. I just "humiliated" him. Later that Saturday night i called him twice and send him a text. He never called me back or text me back. Bottom line, he is ignoring me........it is now sunday evening and not a single call or text from him. I'm confused. Should i keep calling him? Should i apologize? Please give me your advices, I am lost and confused. Thank you....
truth_seeker Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 Your boyfriend sounds like a needy bitch. He's playing the victim card so you will feel bad. If I were you, let him come to you, and when he does, tell him to grow a sack and shut up. If he doesn't you will drop him for a real man.
KatZee Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 Apologize? Apologize for what? Your boyfriend sounds like an entitled a.ssclown. First of all, you invited him over because you had the house to yourself and he said NO. You then went about your day and your life. He decides to call you to tell you that he's outside your apartment and to come let you in. Is he serious? He didn't even give you advance notice, he just shows up and says to let him in? How did he even know if you were there or not? What if you weren't even there at all??? You don't just show up to someone's house without giving them notice. Then because you're in the shower and don't want to walk outside naked, he gets annoyed with you and says you "humiliated" him? And now he's going to play the passive aggressive game by ignoring you and "punishing" you? Get real and grow up. I've honestly rolled my eyes about 10 times just writing this. The unfortunate reality is that the world does not revolve around him. Good grief. 3
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