NYC-BigKat Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 This really really pretty girl that works 2 floors above me is always coming in to my office to pick up stuff & make chat with me a lot. I asked her to lunch last week & she agreed but when lunchtime came she never showed . Um.. I saw her again but didn't mention anything about getting stood up & she never said anything either. Maybe she forgot? Anyway...there's this guy on my floor that's a real super duper jerk & all the girls stare at him 'cause he's a former football jock but he ignores them and the girl I like was talking to a different girl on how she hates him & how he's a ******* & stuff but then just Friday she went to catch the elevator with him. Why would she do that? Now my coworker tells me the jerk asked her out & she agreed . What is going on here??
Carenth Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 So I hate to be blunt but nothing you have written has actually indicates that she dislikes this guy, quite the opposite actually. Is this guy actually a jerk or is he a jerk in your eyes because he asked the girl you like out? 2nd hand information passed down the line isn't exactly reliable... 1
Author NYC-BigKat Posted October 6, 2013 Author Posted October 6, 2013 So I hate to be blunt but nothing you have written has actually indicates that she dislikes this guy, quite the opposite actually. Is this guy actually a jerk or is he a jerk in your eyes because he asked the girl you like out? 2nd hand information passed down the line isn't exactly reliable... I heard with my own ears that she thinks he's a ******* & she was ignoring him for a while but then last week she ran to catch the elevator with him. I thought that was so so dumb 'cause why would she wanna be near him & he asks her out & she says yes from what my worker told me. So confused .
truth_seeker Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 I heard with my own ears that she thinks he's a ******* & she was ignoring him for a while but then last week she ran to catch the elevator with him. I thought that was so so dumb 'cause why would she wanna be near him & he asks her out & she says yes from what my worker told me. So confused . She probably liked him all along but maybe felt she didn't have a chance with him so she put it out there that she didn't like him to make herself feel better. 4
Author NYC-BigKat Posted October 7, 2013 Author Posted October 7, 2013 She probably liked him all along but maybe felt she didn't have a chance with him so she put it out there that she didn't like him to make herself feel better. But that's so so weird. Why call him ass hole & then wanna date him? And why did she agree to lunch with me stood me up & say nothing like it never happened? So weird.
MrCastle Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 But that's so so weird. Why call him ass hole & then wanna date him? And why did she agree to lunch with me stood me up & say nothing like it never happened? So weird. This a specific group of women out there that date guys they consider *******s. They like going after guys that don't seem incredibly interested.
Author NYC-BigKat Posted October 9, 2013 Author Posted October 9, 2013 (edited) This a specific group of women out there that date guys they consider *******s. They like going after guys that don't seem incredibly interested. Um..yea that's what my friend says but why? Isn't this a waste of time? Edited October 9, 2013 by NYC-BigKat missed a word
Mrlonelyone Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 My theory is that 'jerks' are only jerky to people they aren't connected to yet nice to everyone else. The jerk saw a nice looking woman running for he elevator and held the door. He became nice to her....which is valued because he isn't nice in general. This makes the woman feel special. Then his body makes her horny. He ask her out. I predict he'll bang her treat her in a jerky manner with irregular niceness. While she'll attempt to talk to you about how selfish and rough he is during sex and how gentle a nice guy would be... Bottom line just forget that *itch. Find a real woman and forget the little girls.
Shaun-Dro Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 My theory is that 'jerks' are only jerky to people they aren't connected to yet nice to everyone else. The jerk saw a nice looking woman running for he elevator and held the door. He became nice to her....which is valued because he isn't nice in general. This makes the woman feel special. Then his body makes her horny. He ask her out. I predict he'll bang her treat her in a jerky manner with irregular niceness. While she'll attempt to talk to you about how selfish and rough he is during sex and how gentle a nice guy would be... Bottom line just forget that *itch. Find a real woman and forget the little girls. As usual, Bigkat, you're attracting the wrong types of women.
pteromom Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 Maybe he was an ******* before because he wasn't paying attention to her, and now that he is, she no longer sees him that way. Also, some women get a weird kind of validation when a jerk likes them. Like "This guy hates everyone, but he likes me, so I must be special." 2
Mrlonelyone Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 Maybe he was an ******* before because he wasn't paying attention to her, and now that he is, she no longer sees him that way. Also, some women get a weird kind of validation when a jerk likes them. Like "This guy hates everyone, but he likes me, so I must be special." The vast majority of women (and men ... it's why so many men like women who are *itches in the eyes of other women). Just as long as the jerk is hot enough and nice enough to them.
carhill Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 Why would a girl date a guy she hates? She likes that she hates him and, more importantly, he's hot. The real answer is that neither you nor we nor he will ever know what's in her mind so it's fruitless to speculate, rather focus more on women who say yes when you ask them out. No = zero. Good luck.
Mrlonelyone Posted October 9, 2013 Posted October 9, 2013 This really really pretty girl that works 2 floors above me is always coming in to my office to pick up stuff & make chat with me a lot. I asked her to lunch last week & she agreed but when lunchtime came she never showed . Um.. I saw her again but didn't mention anything about getting stood up & she never said anything either. You should've called her on that. 1
Ninjainpajamas Posted October 10, 2013 Posted October 10, 2013 He's attractive and a dick head...why wouldn't they go after him? If he was a "nice guy" who lacked confidence, then he wouldn't be half as entertaining or interesting to pursue. 1
robbysurfs Posted October 10, 2013 Posted October 10, 2013 There is a book out there called "how to be the jerk woman love" no sheeet! dude some women like to play the game of cat and mouse well younger "girls" shall I say. I mean the chase or the whole catch and release like a fisherman. Any self respecting women wouldn't be running after a doosh or maybe its something to be said about her and how she feels about her self. Your barking up the wrong tree sounds like maybe you should be looking to find a different chick and she stood you up....BoooP!
crederer Posted October 10, 2013 Posted October 10, 2013 It sounds like she wants him. Sorry dude, I know it doesn't make much sense. My brother constantly talks **** about girls until he dates them and then all the sudden they're the best thing ever (despite the copious amounts of **** talking).
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted October 10, 2013 Posted October 10, 2013 This really really pretty girl that works 2 floors above me is always coming in to my office to pick up stuff & make chat with me a lot. I asked her to lunch last week & she agreed but when lunchtime came she never showed . Um.. I saw her again but didn't mention anything about getting stood up & she never said anything either. Maybe she forgot? Anyway...there's this guy on my floor that's a real super duper jerk & all the girls stare at him 'cause he's a former football jock but he ignores them and the girl I like was talking to a different girl on how she hates him & how he's a ******* & stuff but then just Friday she went to catch the elevator with him. Why would she do that? Now my coworker tells me the jerk asked her out & she agreed . What is going on here?? Hypergamy.
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