Serenagirl Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 i dont for sure *lol* why would a guy, who gets after YEARS of waiting the chance of finally having sex with a woman he wanted all the time, just simply blow it?! we met back in school, he was always into me, know this from himself and friends.it hasn't changed till today (6years later). he still lives in our hometown, i dont.after school i travelled the world for two years and then moved away to study. so i'm not there quite often, but when we met (and we were both single) we always made out, but it never lead to anything (him/me too drunk, me on my period etc) so couple weeks ago, i was home because of a fair i promised my uncle i would help out. so first day, he showed up. i was busy at the bar, didn't see him first. then in my break i went to him. he acted weird and said i had ignored him before so i told him i hadn't seen him and he should come over to the bar for a drink. so 10minutes later he came. he stayed with his friends at the bar the whole time, asked me what i would do afterwards etc. but it got really late so he invited me to sth to eat, just him and me. i asked him if he knew that i would be there and he said yes. so he came basically to see me, after 2 years or sth of not seeing each other at all ( he is also NOT on facebook, i know, weird). he said things like, we should defo make a road trip as long as i'm here ( he got a new car) or i should visit him at his farm ( he does that only part time) he even gave me the adress. and then he complained that i'm not much around and that would be a pity. so, this night (again), i was on my period but he asked if i would meet him a couple days later on a party. i said i had to work that day and wouldnt know for sure. so i passed him my number and said he should give me a call and i would see what i could do. he NEVER called and i didn't went to that party, had to work late. so it's been a while, its a lazy sunday, and i'm still wondering why he has never called it doesnt make sense actually...why would you blow the chance if you knew they are rare?! it's just about sex, shouldn't be that hard...acutally...
soccerrprp Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 It just sounds like there's an excuse (reason) each time the chance comes up, so I would imagine that he thinks he's getting the run-around and that you're really not interested. Otherwise, don't know.
boyoh Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 sounds to me like he got cold feet *lol* i mean he prolly came with the plan to approach you...but after seeing you again after such a long time, he maybe figured it wouldn't be a good idea to get too involved...due to the fact that you are obviously not much around...it's tough to fall for someone if you know, there wont be a chance for a relationship and having sex with you had maybe enhanced his feelings or sth...i mean after 6 years...there must be some kind of feelings, if you cant forget... you got them yourself i guess?! even if you say its just about sex that he has no facebook in his early/mid twenties is indeed kinda strange how about sending him an invitation to it?
Shepp Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 Well I read that as you blowing him off with the 'i might be busy' If I was him I think I'd of totally assumed that was you saying no in a roundabout way! He probably didn't realise you actually wanted him to call!
Author Serenagirl Posted October 7, 2013 Author Posted October 7, 2013 first i appreciate your answers...and that obviousloy most people are as clueless as i am ( given the amount of answers) boyoh...i hadn't thought about that...but he was actually never the emotional guy...but i could be the reason... @shepp...well, why should I offer him my number if i actually not want him to call?! this doesnt sound reasonable... @soccerrprp, well we've met like 4 times...the chances are not very low on that...maybe it's just destiny...it just shouldnt happen *lol*
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