robaday Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 Im in a position I dont like being in. My friend has just broken up with his gf, theyve been having problems for some time now. I dont really know her - have only met her twice, briefly but Ive known him nearly ten years. The problem started about a month ago. She began calling me to find out where he was. 1st time I didnt mind, but the calls became more frequent. Sometimes id be honest other times id cover and say I didnt know where he was. I told him about it and asked him to sort it out with her. So he asked her to stop calling me its not fair on me. Anyway, yesterday he moved out and I got 5 missed calls from her. If I dont pick up with one number she tries another uknown number (must be a setting to not show your number when you call) etc Ahh, I feel bad for her, but its really none of my business and I cant be sucked into some kind of weird friendship with her......he wanted out thats all there was to it. How to handle this?
CC12 Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 Answer her phone call and see what she wants. If she wants to talk about their relationship or is asking where he is, tell her, "I'm just not comfortable discussing Friend with you and I don't think it's right for me to be put in the middle. I hope you understand." Then say you're really busy and you have to hang up now.
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