Superduper Posted December 2, 2004 Posted December 2, 2004 I've been seeing someone a few months. In person he is the same as always, affectionate and attentive and stays with me the same length of time. Nothing is different that way. But in the beginning we used to e-mail every day, sometimes several times a day and sometimes talk a long time on the phone, and I used to get compliments too. Over time, mainly after we got involved physically, the e-mails have dropped off and the frequency of him calling me...although whenever I call him he is available and willing to see me, almost every time. We still see each other as much and there is no change in behavior in person, but the compliments and little things that made it look like he was trying to win me over seem far in the past now. Is it normal for relationships to change like this, or does this signal a problem? I'm just not sure what this is coming to, or where I stand. I don't feel comfortable yet to breach that topic.
missopinionated Posted December 2, 2004 Posted December 2, 2004 Um, so, have you asked HIM what's up? Y'know, if you're going to have a relationship with the guy, you're going to have to speak to him about all sorts of stuff, like "Hey, is everything ok?" By the way, nothing drives a guy more nuts than a woman (or a bunch of women) who talk and talk and talk, say nothing and never ask the right question.
tokyo Posted December 2, 2004 Posted December 2, 2004 Hey, I like talking.... What´s so wrong when women want to talk? The only guys I know who have problems with chatting with me are the ones who are busy trying to figure out a cunning plan on how to get to my panties and don´t give a **** for me.
Mary3 Posted December 3, 2004 Posted December 3, 2004 The hard work of wooooing you is over.....he has you... Are you sleeping with him ? ( I know that sounds nosey ) but I wonder if now ( if you are ) if he has broken into the piggy bank and depleted some of the savings and now is losing interest......
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