she broke u with me and after 1 months she want to get back!!!!

[summerland]

Hello everyone it's been a while that i have poste my story here well i was looking for anythings to get back my ex and the true she want just a space and after the break up and i refuse the friendship and start no contact for 1 months she send me email last night ....

 

saying that she is fine and that she would love that we go out and talk to fix this when she come next month to the city

 

we live a distance relationship yes

 

i don't know what to do the true when i got her message i didn't feel anythings i was thinking i was going to be happy but i feel nothing she is a great person i did same mistake that's whu she broke up with me ,and in the last time i was trying to convince her to come back but now honestly im not sure if i want her back or not

i don't know what to do !!

[Lizrd3000]

there was a reason you broke up. I'm sure you felt hurt.

now you dont feel a thing for you, good for you!

do you really want to sacrifice this all what you've been through just to get back to square one, and face the SAME problems all over again?

 

I wouldnt get back with her if I were you, but then again, I'm not you and dont know what you feel!

[Romaks]

Well since you already agreed, hear her out.

 

Also, find out why she all-of-a-sudden wants to work things out...what changed?

[Mz_sassy_77]

I would really want to know why they changed their minds. I spent 3 years wasting time with someone who kept changing their mind about me. He'd break up with me for various reasons and then about a month later we'd somehow end up meeting up and he'd all of a sudden had a change of heart. Realized this or that or the other. Was just wasted time in the end. I'm not saying its the same situation but obviously they had major doubts to BU in the first place. In my case they aren't good on their own and I think a huge part of it was fear they wouldnt meet someone else or be ok on their own for a while, rather then loving me. Learnt that the hard way unfortunately. I'd be very wary of the change of heart.

[lauri]

Take it really slow. The thing that brothers me is we don't know the additional information as the person who got dumped.

 

You should hear her out and find out what really changed. Its hard for people to cut someone they care about out of their lives.

[cavalier99]

Sounds just like a big breadcrumb to me. Be very wary. Im not sure id respond to this. In fact i wouldnt. Stay NC and see what happens. If you get a barrage of communication profesing her mistake..she is sorry ..want back ecetera then it is a different story to consider. Even then reamin wary. Cav

Edited October 6, 2013 by cavalier99

[summerland]

Thank you for your answers well these who don't know about the information

it's been more then 2 years we are toghter she is in 20 years and iam in 26 years ,she was really in deep love she start talking about futur and everythings ,but when she start talk much about jobs and live in different countries i was just ignore her say yeah i don't like maybe u should find someone else who accepte that and true i was saying that just to not talk about the subject and i start been distance even i ask her why she want to broke up she say,she want to be alone and that she don't see futur for us and that i was waiting always for her to say to me i love you then i say it too ,and it's true it was always her wo say it first i know i my mistkae that i did and i told her everythings in the last conversation when i accepte the broke up and then i start nc and after 1 month she contact me

i have answer her email saying that im doing fine and that well be good for us to meet next month and talk .