Mz_sassy_77 Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 Saw the post on things I miss about my ex. Thought it would be theraputic to start one for things we DONT miss. 1. Dont miss being taken for granted. 2. Dont miss being used 3. Dont miss NOT being a priority 4. Dont miss the mind games 5. Dont miss living with someone who was always broke and picking up the slack 6 Dont miss being made to feel like there was something wrong with me, that I wasnt enough. 5
Nancy87 Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 He wasnt sure of himself. any time. he needs people to tell him he is doing right. V low self confidence, which boasted after job lol aassssshule had bad grammar had no mind of his own, listening to people following them, always full of problems and complaining all the time with whatever happens likes all girls 1
StrongLass Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 He 1) Took me for granted 2) Assumed I'd stick around in his life after cheating, stealing, and repeatedly lying to me 3) Ran away from his problems like a little b*tch instead of dealing with them like a man. 4) Thought 135 dollars was worth more than my friendship or trust There's more but I feel that's really the main four. 1
Emma1234 Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 He: 1) Never reacted to anything at all EVER 2) Was completely one leveled and so never had any passion or spark or interesting conversation 3) Was once caught flirting and comparing me to another girl and would not admit he was wrong 4) Made me feel so frustrated 5) wasn't curious about me, never asked questions, was happy to talk about himself - if he ever spoke at all 6) was boring!! incredibly boring 7) Had zero sex drive 8) arrogant 9) Very vain, yet lacking a huge amount of self confidence which caused him to act vain, be obsessed about his appearance and need ego boosts (one of which was dumping me) 10) left me to 'find himself' and admitted that he was selfish but that he didn't care 11) kept a lot of things to himself 12) didn't read books or show interest in anything i had an interest in (except flipping come dine with me) 13) did not appreciate me 14) gave up 1
HarleyBrown2 Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 1. Selfish 2. Stingy 3. Double Standards 4. Attention Seeker 5. Moody 6. Negative 7. Mood Zapper 8. Self Centered 9. Game Player 10. ABSOLUTE HEAD F*#K 2
Real36 Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 Don't miss: 1. Being lied to and cheated on 2. Lack of trust on his part because he could not be trustworthy himself 3. Making me feel inadequate 4. Tearing me down to build himself up 5. This is a big one. Racial double standard. 3
joe86 Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 I don't miss her tremendous fear of commitment! 1
Lizrd3000 Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 1. her making me jealous by talking about other guys 24/7. 2. her hot & cold behaviour towards me. 3. her making me feel inadequate. 4. her attention seeking behaviour, usually negative. 5. her shifting dependancy / codependancy behaviour. (i know right? what the f*ck?!) 2
seahawker64 Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 1.) Her passive / aggressiveness 2.) Her lying 3.) Her Princess mentality @ 48 years old...WTF? 4.) Her high pitched squeaky voice when she got riled up 5.) Her ego / all about me attitude 6.) Her kissing her kids asses and letting them run her life I look back now and often wonder if she had borderline Asperger's?
purplesoccer34 Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 1) extreme jealousy 2) flirted with other girls 3) ignored me in front of our friends 4) never told me anything about his life 5) lies
Beautiful diamond Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 1) being cheated on 2) guessing why he was unhappy 3) everything always being my fault 4) having to adapt to him 5) being someone's fool 6) getting used/played/duped 1
tinydancer93 Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 Great thread! I don't miss: 1) Never being taken out 2) Rarely getting quality time with him 3) His "friends" always hanging around 4) No contact between seeing each other 5) Feeling insecure in our relationship 6) Being bored 7) Feeling taken for granted 8) Feeling used for sex 2
Bubberfly Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 Here's mine... 1) he never helped cleaning the house 2)he was always bringing random animals home but never taking care of them 3) he was always pushing me away 4) the lying, over the stupidest things 5) the TV ALWAYS being on 6) I always had to initiate sex 7) he snooped through my stuff 8) he was always hyper-critical and made fun of me if I worked out or put make up on 9) he spent way too much money on frivolous things 10) he randomly disappeared without telling me where he was going 11) he always had one foot out the door 12) he always hid his phone away from me 13) oh yah, and the cheating... Jesus, I feel like I can keep going... 1
Author Mz_sassy_77 Posted October 7, 2013 Author Posted October 7, 2013 Here's mine... 1) he never helped cleaning the house 2)he was always bringing random animals home but never taking care of them 3) he was always pushing me away 4) the lying, over the stupidest things 5) the TV ALWAYS being on 6) I always had to initiate sex 7) he snooped through my stuff 8) he was always hyper-critical and made fun of me if I worked out or put make up on 9) he spent way too much money on frivolous things 10) he randomly disappeared without telling me where he was going 11) he always had one foot out the door 12) he always hid his phone away from me 13) oh yah, and the cheating... Jesus, I feel like I can keep going... LOL. I got so many more too. Its funny how we spend a lot of time missing these people and idolising what we've lost....But they sure as hell weren't perfect. So I continue... He was super hairy - even for a man. LOL!!! Ouch thats just mean. I was expected to fit in with his life. I was expected to make all the changes. I really DONT have any interest in his super important hobbies Never made any time for me Avoided spending time alone with me. Could not just be..constantly had to be either doing something, on his phone, talking to someone, meeting someone. Had commitment issues Had intimacy issues Was a liar Was gutless He thought he was interesting...NOT!!!!!! ....... 1
ponchsox Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 1. Very little time together 2. Her moodiness when we did see each other 3. She always complained I didn't listen 4. The hour drive to see her 5. Her house was always messy 6. She was very controlling 7. She didn't invite me to a lot of things she did 8. Getting a hold of her on the phone was an act of congress 9. The horse farm she went to with a lot of bitter women 10. She never came to my house and always had excuses why
Meadowgreen Posted December 1, 2013 Posted December 1, 2013 1. every conversation revolving around you 2. being reminded of how unattractive you find me every time you launch into another bragging session about whoever you're banging this week 3. being ignored 4. your stupid Mini-me reminiscent face filling up my Facebook newsfeed 5. shaking my head at another one of your weekly coke binges 6. being the only one making an effort to keep our 'friendship' going 7. your ****e taste in music 8. your Barney Rubble laugh (I used to think it was endearing, now you just sound like the buffoon you are)
TanTry Posted December 1, 2013 Posted December 1, 2013 1. Having to text or call him first most of the time 2. Feeling like he wasnt interested in my day/hobbies 3. Him asking me for money and towards the end not giving it back 4. The amount of time he spent on his phone/going out with friends 5. The way he could switch between hot and cold in an instant. 3
singme2sleep Posted December 1, 2013 Posted December 1, 2013 1. I don't miss his smoking 2. I don't miss his need to always be right 3. I don't miss how he always played video games (grow up) 4. I don't miss his EMPTY promises 5. I don't miss his "push me away" attitude 2
Mariposa10 Posted December 1, 2013 Posted December 1, 2013 (edited) WTH! Are you having a midlife crisis? I thought that happened in your 50's? You're in your mid 30's and you're looking/dressing like a teenager nowadays? I just saw a picture of you, wth is going on??! I don't miss your flakiness and your ****ty taste in music (just like someone mentioned above). Edited December 1, 2013 by Mariposa10 1
Viro12 Posted December 1, 2013 Posted December 1, 2013 She: 1) I don't miss being ignored 2) I don't miss being lied to 3) I don't miss making me believe I was enough, then she discovered her coworker 4) I don't miss after 3 years, she still hurt me 5) I don't miss her blaming everything on me 6) I don't miss being taken for granted 7) I don't miss becoming her emotional trash can 8) I don't miss being cheated 9) I don't miss her unpredictability 10) I don't miss her being selfish 11) Despite all this: I still miss her, and wish her best, she was after all someone I chose to love.
KelC411 Posted December 4, 2013 Posted December 4, 2013 1) his narcissim and arrogance and 2) taking for granted thatbevery girl is going to not only put up with these traits but tell him constantly how awesome he is 3)his willingness to bail when thngs got hard after three happy years and blame it all on me 4)his lack of communication which I didnt know about until when we BU he brought up basically a scorecard of the things I had done wrong 5)his constant forgetting to ask about my day (even when there were big things happening, like presentations I was nervous about)when I always asked about his 6)his insistence that I played every game he liked even when it just wasnt my kind of game and then duirng the BU saying I never tried any of the things he liked 7)taking for granted that I am a girl gamer in the first place 8)how vicious he was when he broke my heart
SoonMyFriend Posted December 4, 2013 Posted December 4, 2013 WOW... love this idea -His laziness (SERIOUSLY figuring out dinner is NOT THAT HARD) -His lack of desire to go out and do ANYTHING -How he closed me off -How he would avoid making plans with me until the last minute -How he would have endless compliments for other girls, but rarely complimented me -His hatred of house pets -His views on marriage -His inability to put effort into ANYTHING (hate your job? DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT) -His selfishness I could keep going... but really I think that covers most of it.
faithfully Posted December 4, 2013 Posted December 4, 2013 I dont miss his big **** off nose His black falling out teeth His attitude to always being right I dont miss them at all
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