KCCK Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 Sorry guys, I broke NC again... Received another message from the person who dump me 2 months ago...Had been in no contact for more than 2 weeks and suddenly, she messaged me again today..I broke NC the last time to say thanks to her after she congratulated me on my graduation ceremony... anyway, today she told me to re-consider my decision on doing post graduate with a certain lecturer, saying how stressful she is regarding her thesis and I reply her telling that "I can plan for my own future" and stupidly, "I can help her with her thesis but doubt she will need my help any more and all the best to her".. She then replied saying that she can settle it herself and doubt that I can help her... I wanted to say that she underestimated my strength but I just keep it to myself and wish her all the best.. So the thing is, I dont understand why is she still keeping in contact with someone she doesnt want in her life? She may think that she is doing something nice by dropping by time to time to say Hi.. but in reality, it hurts like hell.. I really wanted to be cruel and cold to her and tell her to F*** Off but I cant because I still have feelings for her... =(
dolita Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 I reply her telling that "I can plan for my own future" and stupidly, "I can help her with her thesis but doubt she will need my help any more and all the best to her" IMO your text shows a little bitterness (saying I can plan for my own future when she shows concerns) and expectation (I can help her with her thesis but doubt she will need my help any more), like you still hope and find a chance to be involved with her, but saying you doubt she will need you shows insecurity this is obviously game, she might have seen through it and what do you expect, she played along saying that she can settle it herself and doubt that you can help her... as long as you still have expectations you cannot talk to her, period. 1
haggard969 Posted October 27, 2013 Posted October 27, 2013 i went no contact for 2 weeks. she msged me n was flirting to meetup. i took the bait n got sucked in. it only pushed her farther away because this is what woman want. they want you to love them but not show it. women are suppost to be the lovers not men.they dont like it when you love them to death n tell them everyday. they see the love from what you do for them. we see the love for what they do for us. words dont mean nothing. do not talk to her n if you do meet up oneday. take antidepressents to control your emotions. if you show that you care. you lose. take some seriously it will help make you not care
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