dgethis01 Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 (edited) 2 year Gf was seeing another guy across country. i caught her in her lies. she wants to be friends with him.. she wants me to be the guy for her to marry but needs time to be single ( she means she doesnt want to see anyone else and wants to work on herself) yeaa sure shes got a lot of problems.. lying is the biggest one we agreed to tell eachother the truth from that moment on but i dont think shes holding up her part of the bargain. she went from balling her eyes out at the airport tellling me she loved me to 2 days later toning down communication to just simple bread crumb talk. ever since i left last week shes been hanging out with him almost everyday. she didnt go out to the bars with him because she knows shell make a poor choice. her family hates her and her church friends dont approve so she sources him as someone who wont judge. well common sense tells me to tell her to hit the road sister and that shes still hooking up with this guy I started no contact with her 2 days ago and she was blowing up my phone and texting me a lot. once i answer its back to simple crap. well today i started again and shes back at it trying to contact me part of the reason we had issues was the distance and me not being willing to contact her all the time along with not physically being there. so im not sure if this is the best idea of winning her back considering her ex did this too and she thought he was ajerk but he had every right to do it i feel like plan b... she thinks were friends right now but still tells me she loves etc. do i tell her hey look NC starting now or continue not saying anything should i lay my ground rules out stating i do not want to be friends, whenever you come to your sense let me know but im not waiting around for you anymore... i dont want her to think im option i personally do not like this guy and if her and i get back together they can not be friends when i dont answer she goes crazy. i dont want to push her towards this guy and lastly i got a job offer there and was planning to move there with her but shes screwed it all up and told me that she can not be any part of my decision why i want to move there. i honestly love her despite the crap shes done to me and im willing to work through it but shes not taking me seriously. any advice greatly appreciated Edited October 6, 2013 by dgethis01
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