Aero-el Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 (edited) If you invited a girl to "meet up" at a coffeehouse the first time, a bar at the second time, and an art gallery the third and there was no kiss attempted at the end, would it seem to you that I was asking her to "hang out" vs an actual "date"? Also, if I wanted to pursue this as more than just "hanging out" (such as a romantic pursuit), would I be friendzoned by now into the point of no return? Edited October 6, 2013 by Aero-el
TB Rhine Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 Go for the kiss next time you see her - seriously, do it right away, don't dally - it's the absolute, unassailable cure for being friendzoned. Guys who go for the kiss will either score or get rejected, but they will never be banished to the Phantom Zone-like purgatory of the FZ.
veggirl Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 If there was no kiss by the end of the THIRD freakin date I'd be terribly confused as to what the guy wants and turned off by his passiveness. I'd never assume a guy asking me to hang out one on one was just wanting to "hang out", I'd assume it was a date. Then again I don't collect male friends so there is that to consider as well. a girl with lots of guy friends might think of it as a hang out not a date.
irc333 Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 If you invited a girl to "meet up" at a coffeehouse the first time, a bar at the second time, and an art gallery the third and there was no kiss attempted at the end, would it seem to you that I was asking her to "hang out" vs an actual "date"? Also, if I wanted to pursue this as more than just "hanging out" (such as a romantic pursuit), would I be friendzoned by now into the point of no return? "Hanging out" is more of a "Friendzoned' thing, refuse to 'hang out" with a woman, just date them.
KatZee Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 Hanging out = no pre-thought, mainly last minute plans to get together at your house to watch a movie and "hang." Date = a planned, thoughtful out-of-the-home event, where just you two go, to make it more of a "date" it usually will involve some sort of food or dinner at the end. There is a lot of talk about "friend zoning" and I can agree that if a guy I was dating didn't kiss me by date 3 I would be confused and worried he wasn't into me, but if I was seriously into him, it would be impossible for me to put him in the friend zone.
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