Rhythm28 Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 So I went out with this chick from work a few times. Everyone thought we were a really good fit for each other so why not. Went on a few dates but it just wasn't there for me. I tried but there were just some things I couldn't get past. Nice girl though. Nothing bad to say about her. We remained friends. A few weeks ago a friend at work asked if I was dating her and I said no. 2 weeks ago this girl, a few other friends, and myself are hanging out at a bar and she starts getting texts from this guy that asked me about her. She tried to hide it but it was too late. I had seen it. By now they've gone out at least once. When he goes on break, she goes on break. OK. Didn't work out for me. Maybe it'll work out for them. My question is, why hide it? Why hide it from me? I ain't gonna get mad. Her and I aren't married, boyfriend/girlfriend, etc. so what grounds would I have to get upset about it anyway? I am not mad at her because women are gonna do what they want and that's fine. I just wonder why the guy didn't tell me he was gonna ask her out or that they're going out? Like I said, how can I be mad? Do they think I'm gonna get mad? She could be doing it to get back at me because I went out with someone else almost two years ago but her and I weren't even involved then.
yankees51988 Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 At first I thought your post was gonna say you were mad about it, and then I read that you only went out a few times so I was gonna be like "yeah, so what?", but then I saw you basically said the same thing, lol. Seems like you guys cut it off fine and it wasn't really anything so exactly, who cares? I dunno why she would try to hide it, maybe just because she thinks you would get mad (i've seen people get mad over that before, especially some girls, not to generalize. lol). But yeah, I don't see why that would be a big deal, it isn't like it was your girlfriend, whatever I'd just forget about it I guess or say you don't give a **** haha.
Lansing Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 I can relate to what you are saying. I was hanging out with this girl a lot, we got along well, but, we were not "Dating". A friend asked me if I was going to date her/why I wasn't interested in her/etc. Found out a year later that he asked her out a few times after this. Kind of bugged me, like, why didn't he just say to me "hey, I am going to ask her out" or whatever.
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