ponchsox Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 So I have a potential date lined up 9 days after being dumped from a 1.5 year relationship. I actually feel really good because honestly our relationship was really suffering the last few months and I almost ended it myself. Ex wants to be friends but I have a feeling I'm going to pass because I'm not wasting any time and meeting new people! The longer you make yourself unavailable, the bigger the chance someone special could be slipping through your fingers.
Jim305 Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 Go for it! The best cure for a hangover is another beer! 1
Beautiful diamond Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 You are making a mistake. Rushing to date will just push back all the pain, not heal it. You are trying to convince yourself you are ready. Bad sign. Just let yourself hurt, alone. Don't drag an innocent person into the mess. Date when your healed. How will you know? When you have nothing to prove and are not in a rush. 1
Dekadin Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 Go for it! The best cure for a hangover is another beer! LOL, I love this post! But really, don't rebound date. It's stupid. It's selfish and it will ultimately hurt you and the innocent new person. 1
a0009 Posted October 7, 2013 Posted October 7, 2013 The best thing is not to get into a relationship and heal. If you get into a relationship now you will be covering the pain and it will fester and you will hurt the new girl. Also if the new girl reject you or dumps you it will be a double blow. Advice is do not date for the next 3 months.
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