moveONorStay Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 So...everyone here is talking about break ups...but, what is it that you really miss about that person? Is it the companionship? support? comfort of being in a relationship? Is it that the sex was great? For those who have recently broke up, or are still trying to get over the break up...what is it that you miss most about that person? Was it really that good?
AnyaNova Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 His laugh and his voice. And the funny thing is, the first time I heard his voice, I really didn't like it. But it wasn't too long before I loved it. The way he could make me laugh. The things he thought of that I didn't. The way we just got so happy around each other.
Mariposa10 Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 Oh boy... this is gonna be a depressing thread... 1
lindsay1990 Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 I'm going to forget I ever came to this thread and never come back 1
Author moveONorStay Posted October 5, 2013 Author Posted October 5, 2013 I'm going to forget I ever came to this thread and never come back It's actually a pretty healthy thing...when you realize that it probably wasn't that special and you realize that there is someone with potentially better qualities out there, it'll be far easier to get over it!
Phoe Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 I don't miss anything about my exes Lucky thing I suppose, that I don't have to feel heartache, but also somewhat disheartening to realize I never had anything special with anyone.
melell Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 I miss having someone do things for me without my requesting it. Selfish but true.
Johnsmith100 Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 Her smile. Feeling responsible for her happiness. Having her come to me feeling low and putting the smile back on her face.
Vinsanity1307 Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 I miss coming home too her after work, her support, Knowing she was always there,as I was her...The sex was beyond words as well... Wasnt even sex it was always making love regardless what we did it was the connection that you never felt with anyone else....Indescribable...
faithfully Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 thought I would miss something about him but now am sooo grateful that we are noo longer together. It is sooo true what they say " LOVE IS BLIND". The only thing I missed was my old self, the confident, sexy, full of life self. Just glad I can now get it back
Sneaky Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 I'm not sure how healthy this thread is but I had been thinking on this anyway; what I miss most is holding her hand while watching tv and sneaking her a peck now and then to see if it would make her smile; feeling my heart melt when it did. 2
Salvatore85 Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 There's absolutely nothing wrong with this thread. Failing to acknowledge that nearly everyone you come in contact with in your life time influences something's about your life is silly. I can acknowledge the fact that my ex had some very positive impacts on my life regardless of how things ended. With that said the thing I miss most about her was watching horror movies together. It would terrify her in a funny way and she wouldn't let me leave the room without her. It was really hilarious
Mariposa10 Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 If my ex does miss me a little bit. He's missing my: voice, belly, teeth and hugs. So I choose to focus on what he used to tell me he loved about me
Phoe Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 Dunno what my exes would miss about me. One of them is still creepy stalker status 7 years later, so there's something he misses, but WHAT that is? I have no idea.
JDPT Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 Smile and pleasant demeanor. Oh sex was crazy btw lol
eric85 Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 The thing I miss the most is the way we cuddled in bed before we fell asleep each night. I still find myself laying in that exact position its really weird and is really affects me at night and when I wake up alone in the a.m.
travelonic Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 How I never had to explain any habits, or odd quirks - since both my ex and I shared them and understood not just what they are, but why we had them.
hotpotato Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 I thought I missed his companionship. Now, I see our relationship more as deadweight. I did all the work then he cheated. As time goes on it's harder to think of things I would miss.
Never Again Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 I miss her laugh, and her energy, humor, and wit. I miss acting like fools and having fun while doing absolutely anything, even if we were doing nothing at all. I miss her at family functions, and knowing how well she had clicked with all of my most intimate social circles.
Mz_sassy_77 Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 I miss feeling close to someone... Having someone who I know loves and cares for me....oh wait, they didnt
NoMoreJerks Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 "What do you miss the most?" Nothing. Absolutely nothing. That's how bad it was. I am serious, BTW.
NoMoreJerks Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 I did all the work then he cheated. Yeah, funny how that works, eh? Same thing with me.
Real36 Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 I miss the strange, intuitive connection we had with each other. And the inside jokes. I think he misses my care and consistency. He had never had that before. I think that is why he still shows up and gives me those deep looks that shake me up emotionally.
seahawker64 Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 Amazing sex, her smile, her sense of humor. It's weird how thing's seem to balance each out at times. She had plenty of irritating habits too but there was some good as well.
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