polger Posted October 17, 2013 Posted October 17, 2013 First 2 months were hard, but I had a lot to focus on so I didn't give myself much time to grieve. My ex broke NC to tell me she had left me for somebody else and made a point of saying how she is improved and happier. I was doing great to that point, then I spent about 3 weeks where I couldn't get her out of my head. To be clear I was happy with the break up, the relationship was not good for both of us. It's been 6 weeks since she contacted me and I'm feeling stronger than ever before, I've dealt with everything the break up can throw at me and I've accepted that she is no longer a part of my life. I still care about her, I hope she finds happiness as she has struggled with depression for 15 years. Right now I'm not interested in being with somebody else, I'm still growing as a person and feel I need another 3-4 months to get back to that happy single person I use to be. It takes time, but every time I have broken up with somebody I have made major improvements to my life. I got a new job, moved city, lost 50lbs and learned to drive in the last 4 months. Now I'm going to take some art classes and learn spanish, now is the time to be that person you always wanted to be.
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