thompson Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 My girlfriend and I recently (last 30 days) just quit talking to each other...little weird. Anyway, I was on a buying website and was purchasing some books and looked up her name and it showed her wish list. So I bought what was on there and had it sent to her and it didn't say anything. The question is, should I have done that? I was feeling kind of stupid about it and thought better of it the next day and went to cancel the order but it had already been shipped. Now I have to deal with whatever happens. Will she be upset? Or think it weird? Ugggghhhhh.
Mariposa10 Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 Why did you guys stop talking in the first day?
coolheadal Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 No, but call her up and tell her what you did for her. I am sure she'll be thankful! See what she tells you on the phone? Don't forget to give us feedback from what you have learned from her?
Author thompson Posted October 5, 2013 Author Posted October 5, 2013 Why did you guys stop talking in the first day? I dont know. The last time we spoke was at her sons football pizza party September 7th and after that the only other interaction was on some facebook post, that wasn't negative, only a picture comment and that was it. Soon after that I removed her fb since she didn't call or anything. She has pulled the silence thing before and I have called her out on it, but decided not to this time. The reason for not saying anything is because when you confront her she gets pissed and the conversation turns into a one sided-all-about- her arguement.
Author thompson Posted October 5, 2013 Author Posted October 5, 2013 Why did you guys stop talking in the first day? No, but call her up and tell her what you did for her. I am sure she'll be thankful! See what she tells you on the phone? Don't forget to give us feedback from what you have learned from her? I will. I just got the the tracking info and it will be delivered today some time around 430 pst. we'll see what she does. Lol knowing her she won't say anything
Mariposa10 Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 How old are you two? How long have you guys been a couple? Sorry to say this to you, but you two sound very very immature....
Author thompson Posted October 5, 2013 Author Posted October 5, 2013 (edited) How old are you two? How long have you guys been a couple? Sorry to say this to you, but you two sound very very immature.... Not offended by your statement at all because you're right. In my defense, I have always been the one to confront her when she does this avoidance thing. I try and have a civil convo with her and it would backfire into a huge argument and go absolutely no where. This time I gave no warning and no explanation, I just left the situation untouched....right or wrong. I followed the the no contact rule. I just left and a week later gave her the key to house back by dropping it on the windshield of her car. I wanted to send a message that I was not going to put up with this crap anymore. She knows how she is, she knows how difficult she can be to deal with. Bipolar? Anyway, I got her her wishlist stuff from that website because I love her. Maybe I shouldnt. She certainly has done some things that would make anyone run and never look back, but we were friends for 5 years and have been bf gf off and on for the last 18 months. So its a little hard to walk away. she is 39 and I am 43 Edited October 5, 2013 by thompson didnt include age
r321148 Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 You probably shouldn't have done it but nothing you can do now. What's done is done so don't beat yourself up about it. Maybe it'll work out well for you but if it doesn't then you can sleep sound in the knowledge that you had good intentions 1
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