anomynon Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 I met this guy randomly while I was on a work trip out of state. It was on my last two days there. We hit it off great the first night and he seemed shy but kept saying how he was so glad we ran into each other . The second night he went out to dinner with me and a friend of mine that I hadn't seen in several years and her new husband then we split off for drinks, talked all night, hooked up and accidentally passed out together. I say accidentally because it was 3am and I was planning on heading out to the airport at 4am. It was a rush, we got ready as quickly as possible I gave him a hug and ran out. This was yesterday early morning. We continued to text throughout the day while I was on the ground but just small talk, nothing that hinted at a relationship brewing. I would really like to keep in touch and somehow make it work as I have no problems traveling. Thing is I've been in LDRs in the past and they worked fine (ended due to disagreements not LDR related) but they were always something that started locally and became long distance because one of us had to move. I have no idea how to start a relationship where the only foundation is two nights of conversation and one sexual encounter. Any advice?
Ronni_W Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 I have no idea how to start a relationship where the only foundation is two nights of conversation and one sexual encounter. Any advice? Isn't that the basis for ANY, ALL relationships though? Not necessarily sex right away...but talking...and then at some point, sex. If the LDR part isn't an issue, then you're on-track as if it was not going to be an LDR. IMHO. Best of luck. 2
jimloveslips Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 sounds like it's already started... being yourself seems to be the key to keeping this going...
ThisGal Posted October 6, 2013 Posted October 6, 2013 Sounds like this is just going to be a one night stand type of deal. Nothing to do at this point but to keep communicating. You've clearly developed some feelings for him. You'll just have to continue settling for small talk. He's not obligated to give you more than that as you're not his woman.
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