LoveB86 Posted October 5, 2013 Share Posted October 5, 2013 (edited) Hi LS!! Long time. Wanted to share a thing or two on my story. Been 6 months since the dude I was dating, cheated and left me for the woman he is with now. What is even more sad is they both work with me. Let's just say they both did everything they could to bring me down. I left them alone since the day I found out the cheating. I haven't heard from him since and he haven't heard from me. Good riddance to him. He cheated and he have to live with that. In the meantime, although I fell down hard, I changed my life and started to go to church, volunteer my time to help children read, lost over 20lbs and is looking the best I ever had. Not once I ever wished bad on him for what he did to me. I have nothing against the girl who seems to be so vengeful to making me feel jealous. They are both toxic people that needs to surround themselves in their own problems. They get off to hurting me for the cheating he caused, but I don't look their way. I wish him the best. He cheated... not my problem as I was too good to him. Never thought I would see a light at the end of this dark misery. Got a career job starting in 2 weeks! I waited patiently and it is now my time to be happy. To those who are hurt... I feel your pain. I cried my eyes out. I been cheated on and left in the dust. He didn't give a crap about me and is loving the girl he cheated on me with. 6 months of him disappearing on me. I still cry once a while and think of him, but it truly gets better. Just realize that they were not meant to be. At this point, they are just the past. You deserve to be happy just like them! Be patient... get thru the hard times... cry and get angry when you need too.. Just wait and a light will shine thru. It may not be in a new relationship, it could be a new way of thinking and appreciating life, a new job, or just might be a great deal on a car or bike you been wanting. Face the ups and downs for what it is, you will be stronger. Trust me!! Wishing you all the best. Edited October 5, 2013 by LoveB86 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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