unicornioblanco Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 A little background: My ex -who broke up with me in july because he "had stopped loving me "that way" and also needed time to work on his master thesis- and I, agreed that it was possible to stay friends, he insisted so much that I couldn't help but thinking that it was good. Yes, I know you will say that it's just because i love him and that it's not healthy, i know that, but I also think he is an amazing person and even though I wish we could be together as a couple, if it's not possible, I would still love to have him in my life. We saw each other a couple of times after the break-up, about once per week, in the beggining it was working but things got confused and we ended up having sex the last three times we saw each other, that last time we spent 3 days together, until I realized it was to hard for me. Sometimes he was sweet and the next second feeling bad and confused, so I finally had the guts and told him that if we wanted to be friends I needed some time apart because his mood changes were hurting me more than anything else. Laying on the bed he cried a bit that morning, looking into my eyes and holding my face he said: "Beautiful, beautiful forever" then he stood up. We said goodbye, he kissed me and asked me not to disappear forever and I left. 32 days after no contact, except for a birthday text I sent a week after we last saw each other, i wrote to him via facebook and he actually replied as soon as he saw it and I would love to hear some opinions, anything you have to say. Is there a chance? Did I do wrong? What do you think about his message? Anything! These messages are translated from spanish: Me: Hi, lost one! I just started to watch "I, Claudius" and it reminded me of you, good recomendation - as always. I hope everything is well. I know that you defend your thesis this month, so I wish you from now all the luck and succes in the world. Bye bye. Him: Hi, lost one! Nice that you started to watch claudius one of the best, right... that you very much, I'm a little bit nervous these days :/ but it's going to be fine. Btw i like a lot your profile picture with the new haircut... you look like a sweet Bubbi** that just lives out of strong hugs ... I wish I.... But thank you very much and I also hope everything is well with you. Bye skub ** Bubbi: Danish for Gummi - like the bears So, what do you think? Thank you in advance.
melell Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 I think that your ex is being pleasant because you were pleasant, and that was the pleasant thing for them to do. Be careful.
h0000 Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 I agree. well he doesnt hate you. in fact he likes you. so he wont go cold turkey. And also you were pleasant so naturally he is pleasant accordingly. Not a sign for a chance, or no chance.
Fashiongal Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 I agree with the above. It isn't a sign for chance. You two have always been friendly to each other and he was just being friendly back. I don't like how he tells you he isn't in love with you but still sleeps with you. You deserve better.
JDPT Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 It was a cordial response, nothing beyond that. I think it's safe to say that he still has a lot going in his life and perhaps that works in his favor and propels him to move on. I suggest you do the same, be strong and move forward.
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