dawnl003 Posted October 5, 2013 Posted October 5, 2013 Hello. I was hoping to get some advice here. The title is obvious but I'll go into more detail. I have always been comfortable around guys and they easily become my friends. I also have girl friends and whenever I am around my girl friends...if there is a guy that I like they always get them. I think that I am an attractive person because I have been told that I am. Many guys have told me that what they like about me is that I am real. I kind of hate hearing this because it always seemed like "Hey, I like you, you are real and that's hard to find in other girls that I have met' but I have learned to take it as a compliment some how. I don't get what this means exactly but being real seems to be that they chase my friends, hook up, and then want to seek a serious relationship with me but it turns me off and I end up not dating them because I was second choice. This happens whether I meet the guy first and then he meets some of my friends or I meet a guy while I am with my friends. I've even heard from one of the guys male friends that he told his friend to hook up with my friend and then date me. Is this a normal guy thing? Does this happen because I like to take my time getting to know a guy unlike my friends who must jump into the relationship (or bed) as soon as possible or am I just liking d*ck heads?
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